Is NC effective when she's part of your social circle and you see her almost every da

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Recently my fling broke it off with me completely out of the blue - one day we were all hot and bothered and into each other, the next she was distant and on the third day she said she was confused about what she wanted and wanted to go back to being friends so she could deal with her thoughts alone. Being that this has been only a short but intense 2 week fling, I am not in love with her - in lust perhaps, but I *was* beginning to grow fond of her and the rejection still stings deeply, particularly as it feeds into the low self esteem aspect of my own personality.

 

As a result I am having trouble coping, and despite telling her we will always be friends even if things didnt work out, I think NC is probably the best way to go right now to move quickly on, especially considering that in the past few months even before we got together we were constantly in touch and contact with each other almost every minute of the day.

 

The problem is, she is part of the social circle we met at, and removing that aspect of my life would also mean removing access to many friends and aquaintances Ive known in the past 4 months. She also goes to the same inline hockey classes I do, so avoiding her out in public is going to be impossible without also avoiding other parts of my life I deeply enjoy. Will NC still be as effective if Im still seeing her practically every day? The thought of it right now makes my stomach tie up in knots. :S