Lofty2 Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Together 5 years. NC his end 3 months. NC my end 6 weeks. I have sent a couple of emails - no response, couple of texts - no response. We didn't live together, but shared wonderful times. The thought of moving in together is what freaked him out and he left me (I sort of puched him and he took the incentive and ran with it) Both 30 years old. Aaarrggghhhh. I need to get over this. Can't believe I'm posting this. It all seems so bloody obvious what's happening. Someone shake me and wake me.
Buttercup84 Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Together 5 years. NC his end 3 months. NC my end 6 weeks. I have sent a couple of emails - no response, couple of texts - no response. We didn't live together, but shared wonderful times. The thought of moving in together is what freaked him out and he left me (I sort of puched him and he took the incentive and ran with it) Both 30 years old. Aaarrggghhhh. I need to get over this. Can't believe I'm posting this. It all seems so bloody obvious what's happening. Someone shake me and wake me. I am sorry , we are all going through the same thing.We know the obvious but do not want to accept it yet. But at 30 he should have his **** together and after five years he should know what he wants. Sorry you are going through this x
WhoMI Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 shake shake shake....sorry it's not a dream. I also wanted to wake up & everything back to normal but reality bites. I'm really sorry ur going through this. I'm struggling everyday but this site has helped me to feel a bit better especially those bad days. I hope it'll do the same for u too:) Btw congrats on 6 weeks NC! I know it takes a lot to follow through on NC b/c I can barely make it to a week.
Author Lofty2 Posted August 29, 2011 Author Posted August 29, 2011 Thanks all for your advice. I need to GET OVER THIS. I didn't get a great deal of closure from him and have had to fill in the blanks myself. This has been rather painful. It would be so much easier if he'd clearly told me that it's over. I guess he has by ignoring me and moving on with his life Must move on to happy days again. Must keep trying to push on. This forum is really helping me to vent my feelings. Thanks x x x
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