LoveHurts88 Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 So for those who have read my story in the other thread. I said i was going to go No Contact. Well I did, she just keeps holding me back saying she doesn't know what she wants so I took her word for it and I finally had enough. I told her it's either him or me and she went out with me and stuff I surprised her she chose him today. She said she had to go and she had to do it. Okay? She gave me so much hope and just takes it away in no time. I didn't smoke before but I just started and it made me think. I don't need this **** not from anyone. Yes, yes it hurts but so what. She hurt me I don't need this **** from anyone. I don't take **** from no one and I took it from her. She had control over this I didn't and look what happens it didn't get me anywhere. For those of you who are in the same situation I am in. Life's too short, forget about it. Be happy, they once loved you and be grateful that there's someone out there that will love you more. I told her I can't be friends with her and this is the end no friends no talking texting or anything ever again. She think's I am joking and she think's that I will be back because she said maybe in the future. NO WAY I am done. I am having a hard time forgetting about her right now but you have to do what u have to do. Its your life. Its not your regret it'll be theirs. I told her if she doesn't want this then forget it, forget I even exist. What's done is done, what's said is said, no regrets. I will keep my word this time. She hurt me way too much and she just keeps giving me hope.
jordjones Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Dude, if there is another guy in the picture, you need to go NC hardcore for at bare minimum 30 days. Do not respond to any of her calls, messages, emails, etc. I'm sure she knows where you live/work. The only way that she gets to have any conversation with you is if she knocks on your door and begs for you to talk to her. That's it. She's being a b**** and seems to be one of those women who gets off to having power over another. Some women, even good women, let the power they have over a man give them a huge ego trip. These women always treat the man that sets them on a pedestal like s***. However, if that man goes NC hardcore, the balance of power shifts very quickly. I've been in a similar situation where a my ex dumped me for another guy. I did the whole me or him thing and acted crazy about it. I ultimately went NC hardcore and within a week or so she literally sat outside my apartment, waiting for me to leave so that she could just try and talk to me. Women who get ego trips from having power over a man will also fall down to Earth extremely quickly when that man drops off the face of the Earth.
Crazy4what Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 listen to people here, i was skeptical also when it happened to me. thought mine would be different. But theres always chance it would be different. Take your time off. if she wants you that bad. Shell be in front of your doorstep. if not... shes just one of those same women. Goodluck!
olivec Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 So for those who have read my story in the other thread. I said i was going to go No Contact. Well I did, she just keeps holding me back saying she doesn't know what she wants so I took her word for it and I finally had enough. I told her it's either him or me and she went out with me and stuff I surprised her she chose him today. She said she had to go and she had to do it. Okay? She gave me so much hope and just takes it away in no time. I didn't smoke before but I just started and it made me think. I don't need this **** not from anyone. Yes, yes it hurts but so what. She hurt me I don't need this **** from anyone. I don't take **** from no one and I took it from her. She had control over this I didn't and look what happens it didn't get me anywhere. For those of you who are in the same situation I am in. Life's too short, forget about it. Be happy, they once loved you and be grateful that there's someone out there that will love you more. I told her I can't be friends with her and this is the end no friends no talking texting or anything ever again. She think's I am joking and she think's that I will be back because she said maybe in the future. NO WAY I am done. I am having a hard time forgetting about her right now but you have to do what u have to do. Its your life. Its not your regret it'll be theirs. I told her if she doesn't want this then forget it, forget I even exist. What's done is done, what's said is said, no regrets. I will keep my word this time. She hurt me way too much and she just keeps giving me hope. Don't beat yourself up over breaking nc man. It happends your human. So now you know this woman isn't right for you and all she is doing is hurting you. I went through it too and got hurt badly to. But once I relized she was no good and a piece of garbage it made it very easy to forget about her and do nc for good.
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