Desensitized Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Hey everyone, I met this really interesting girl leaving the gym 2 days ago; I really like her. She's beautiful, driven, and seems to like my qualities, too. She asked me to hangout sometime; I agreed that we should sometime. So, she texts me 10 minutes after leaving her, and I ask her to hangout shortly after. Well, I end up going to her place; she has some people over - I feel sort of awkward with all of her friends there, so I leave after about an hour. After I leave, she texts me asking if she should come over later, and, I tell her that she should. We've been going to the gym together every day; I am really attracted to her. Every time I turn to look at her, she flashes me a smile; I can't help but think that she may be interested in me. She also is always texting me. I don't know, I don't want to screw things up... how long should i wait before officially asking her out? I already asked her to go to dinner with me sometime; she agreed. I wish we could spend some more one-on-one time together, but her friends always want to be with her, so it's not really possible - and, I don't really like being surrounded by all those people, while I'm trying to get to know her... it's really hard, considering another guy in her group probably likes her too. She's told me that I'm one of the sweetest guys she's met so far; she's looking forward to getting to know me. Any advice would be appreciated.
KathyM Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Hey everyone, I met this really interesting girl leaving the gym 2 days ago; I really like her. She's beautiful, driven, and seems to like my qualities, too. She asked me to hangout sometime; I agreed that we should sometime. So, she texts me 10 minutes after leaving her, and I ask her to hangout shortly after. Well, I end up going to her place; she has some people over - I feel sort of awkward with all of her friends there, so I leave after about an hour. After I leave, she texts me asking if she should come over later, and, I tell her that she should. We've been going to the gym together every day; I am really attracted to her. Every time I turn to look at her, she flashes me a smile; I can't help but think that she may be interested in me. She also is always texting me. I don't know, I don't want to screw things up... how long should i wait before officially asking her out? I already asked her to go to dinner with me sometime; she agreed. I wish we could spend some more one-on-one time together, but her friends always want to be with her, so it's not really possible - and, I don't really like being surrounded by all those people, while I'm trying to get to know her... it's really hard, considering another guy in her group probably likes her too. She's told me that I'm one of the sweetest guys she's met so far; she's looking forward to getting to know me. Any advice would be appreciated. Call her tomorrow and ask her to go out to dinner. Ask her which restaurant she'd like to go to, and then set a time to pick her up.
Author Desensitized Posted August 31, 2011 Author Posted August 31, 2011 Call her tomorrow and ask her to go out to dinner. Ask her which restaurant she'd like to go to, and then set a time to pick her up. Here's an update: I told her I liked her; she said that she figured that I did. She said she wants to get to know me better, so I set up a date with her on Friday of next week. As of lately, though, she has been communicating with me more and even texts me "good morning" in the morning - seems like good signs to me. Hopefully everything goes well. Still trying to figure out where to take her out to, considering she wants me to surprise her.
Author Desensitized Posted September 2, 2011 Author Posted September 2, 2011 Update: Guys, I need help. I feel like I'm letting myself down; on top of that, I feel like I'm messing up big time with this girl! I've known her for about 6 days, and I feel like I'm rushing things with her. Actually, I know I'm rushing things with her. She told me yesterday that she thinks I'm cute, and that, she can't wait for our date. That made me feel good. But, when I went to make a move on her today (I just went to grab her hand) she told me that she wants to get to know me better and that she's a very reserved person; if I could respect her wishes and wait to see where things go after our first date next week. She doesn't seem to be comfortable with me when there are other people with her, but when we're alone, she's perfectly comfortable. I was sitting with her at the universities' cafeteria, and we barely talked because there were other people there. I texted her and asked her if we could talk in private for a bit after we were done eating. She texted me back saying, "why?" lol. I don't know, I feel like i'm going to screw things up. My last relationship was dysfunctional as hell, and, i don't want a repeat of that. This girl actually seems perfectly normal, but I feel like I'm the one that's going to end up ruining it if I can't take my time with her. Bottom line is: she's told me that she's interested in me/thinks i'm cute, etc. But, i still think that she's not? What's wrong with me? My friends tell me to be patient; I know they're right. It's just hard... I guess I just want to make her mine before someone else comes along in the picture? That could be it too. She's beautiful, funny, and smart. We're both majoring in Biochem, so that's pretty cool. I don't know, I come off as confident, but in reality, i'm really not. My own insecurities will be my downfall. Input please
Recommended Posts