shawn923 Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Ok so the title says it all, Im the typical guy that made all the mistakes trying to get her back. She treated me badly and things ended on bad terms for sure. She even moved on with another guy at our same school just to get me jealous, only to break up a week after school ended, haha! I finally had enough and went full NC in May. We've text once all summer... I start classes Monday, at the same school where i met her. She will be there... I was just wondering, how do I handle it? Because i want to keep NC but im bound to see her on campus randomly... Btw, just yesterday she calls my phone twice, i dont answer, and reply with a text a few hours later saying "whos this". It was her, and she asks if i was still mad at her. I said no, then she asked can we be friends. I said no. She asked why and to give her a reason, I just kept composure and said "No, i just dont want to be your friend".... Lord knows i wanted to chew her out and let her know all the negative feelings she's caused me, but i forgive her. I just dont forget... Anyways, she just says "wow ok" and that was it. She calls me again late last night, but i was at a club literally talking to another chick at the time, so again i dont pick up... Havent heard from her today but maybe she tries again. My guess, she knows school is right around the corner, and wants to patch things up really quick to avoid it being awkward when we're in the same room. F that... Thats a selfish reason. She doesnt want the burden of me being "mad" at her and ignoring her like i did last semester when I went NC, only because its easier on her... So sorry to make this long, any help would be appreciated, and im just looking for a way to handle physically seeing her, while maintaining NC...
Chi townD Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 SHAWN!!! Haven't seen you in a while! She still playing games? I figured that which the summer hit, you would have to deal with her again! IS she still with that other douche rocket? Do you know you have classes with her this semester?
Author shawn923 Posted August 29, 2011 Author Posted August 29, 2011 Kind of, i mean she text me that mess yesterday, trying to be my friend. I wasnt having it. I felt she only did that because she didnt want it to be awkward, for herself. And no, shes not with the other guy. They broke up ONE week after school got out, lmao! It only confirmed she was only with him to show out in front of me... And no im pretty sure we wont have any classes together. Although i will see her randomly. And if i know her, she will do the exact same childish bull$hit, and try her very hardest to get me jealous. Oh well its gonna be hard when im not paying her any mind.
confused1989 Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 It's hard man I know what you mean. She probably is trying to make things less awkward but nobdoy knows for sure. That's what I assume with my ex though because I'm in the same position as you. We broke up then she quickly got with another guy who lives a 10 hour drive away then went facebook official and all of that. I heard from her a lot when we first broke up even when she was with that other guy but I didn't hear from her for much of the summer besides on my birthday and when she asked if she could buy my books off of me which I wasn't gonna do. She plays strange little games with me like trying to get my best friend to give her new boyfriend rides back to his town and stuff when she's not even close at all with my best friend. Anyway I'm going back to school to do a few more courses and then I'll be done in December. I don't know how it'll feel for me once I see her. Right now when I accidentally see pictures of her it doesn't bother me at all like it used to, so I'm thinking that I'll be able to handle it fine, but you never know until it actually happens. You're not alone buddy.
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