D86 Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 I would like to advice on getting over an ex-boyfriend. We have been dating for about 14-months. Things have been rocky for the last few months of our relationship, we used to have fights and drama weekly. It was like something out of "love the way you lie" eminem video or ronny/sammie on jersey shore. He said he was tired of the drama and broke up with me. It was very painful for me, I am still in love with him. To deal with it, I have been going out a lot, drinking, partying, even blacking out from getting too drunk. We still talk, I call him to tell him how much I love him and I would do anything to change for him. He says he is not in love with me anymore, but is OK being friends. Since our break-up, we have gone out a few times and ended up having sex. He said it was just sex and didn't mean anything, that he still doesn't want to come back with me and is looking for someone new. This made me very upset, he seemed like he enjoyed the sex and we cuddled after and had a nice dinner. I call and txt him all the time, saying how unfair it is that he dumped me and treats me like I'm nothing. But in return, he is very cold to me and says things like "how many times do I need to tell you that I'm 100% over you and I am looking for someone else". He says I am extremely annoying and that I don't have self respect for continuing to pursue him. He says he would be happy if I found someone else and we would be just friends. I'm willing to do all I can do get him back. Please give me some advice!
mmiller5373 Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 You need to go no contact to heal. This guy seems like he is very selfish. He clearly doesn't care for you anymore, because if he did, he wouldn't be coming back to you for sex. You're only hurting yourself by staying in contact with him. Being friends with an ex, especially an ex that you're still in love with, is not good for your moving on process. He will eventually find someone else and when that day comes, when you're still around, it will hurt more than it hurts now. Walk away before it gets worse.
Anela Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Which one are you: the girl who posted this, or the guy who posted about his "psycho ex" in the dating forum? Why would you post both sides as though you are both of them?
ConfusedT Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 he said he is the boyfriend and is just asking the question, so he can forward the response to the girlfriend. lol, idk. im the psycho ex he is talking about (not to him but to my ex) and i finally left him alone. she'll leave u alone buddy, i think. my ex's ex never left him alone and they ended up getting back together after she begged and begged and begged for the entire year we were together. im not desperate enough for him i guess. ;X
fetish1980 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 Which one are you: the girl who posted this, or the guy who posted about his "psycho ex" in the dating forum? Why would you post both sides as though you are both of them? i know wtf? maybe this person has split personality/multiple identity where he cross dresses when going between diffrerent personalities. fetish
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