Lolipops Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Here is some background info - My first post about the situation: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t294018/ So I think he has lost interest or something. Since the post above we had been texting each other and he was also for the most part initiating it. I have no idea what went wrong. Our last text- him- hi, how are you doing? me- Peachy! U? Did you do anything exciting today? him- nope, just hanging out... U? me- Lucky. I spent my day teaching & then went on a long run. him - Good for u... Sounds fun me- It was So when do you come back to the land of the working? him- Friday me - cool (there was a time delay here) me- or maybe not so cool... afterall the beard could be growing on you... (I was teasing him- he had grown a beard while he was on vacation, sent me a pic of it where i said it was cute, but I like it better shaved - he agreed) him- Nah... I shaved most of it... me- What's left? him- Lit goate' me - Oh my. I am cracking up! him - (he sent me a pic) me- phew! Much better than the image I had me- Thx for showing me & for the laugh Have a great night! him- Ur welcome...U2 So then I waited a couple of days (his last 2 days of vacation - firgured he would want to spend some uninterupted time with his sons) and then I sent him a text on Friday (when he was back from vacation)that said how u doing? There has been no response, which would not be so unusual if he hadn't been the one initiating or responding immediately to my previous texts that we have exchanged. I guess I just don't get it. I really liked and was attracted to what I was learning about him. And, he seemed to be acting the same. Any ideas or thoughts appreciated...
sleepessinoh Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 When you get back from vacation, it takes some time to make adjustment back to real life, atleast it does for me. I would give him some time. He seems to initiate contact with you so hopefully he will once he gets re-settled into every day life again. I'll tell you what my friends tell me all of the time. He is a part of your life, not your life. Live your life and he may flutter back in and if he does not on to the next.
Author Lolipops Posted August 28, 2011 Author Posted August 28, 2011 Right after I posted this. Guess what? He sent a text! Saying basically what you said about resting and relaxing... (Hmmm is he on this site...) And, I know he is not my life. My life is pretty active & full, but I'm also open to more. I'm definitely not sitting at home, pining away for him. Not my style. But I do have to fight myself in thinking/analyzing way too much. And I will admit Im pretty excited about this guy and maybe I need to take that down a notch or two, I'm working on it. LOL!
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