sprightlee Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 Okay, I (still) have this really big problem. I am still trying to choose between two guys, and I am not making any headway...I think the problem is my insecurity. One of the guys, let's call him Jake, is successful, funny, cultured, really fun to be with, well-traveled, we are both crazy about learning foreign languages...Basically, he meets a ton of the criteria on my LIST. The other, call him Nate, is someone I see all of the time. He is very handsome, gentle, sweet, silly, brave, generous, chivalrous, hardworking, and very devoted...I really like them both... The problem is that I have more feelings for Nate, even though I know that Jake is probably the better choice. Should I pick the best choice, or the one I have more feeling for? I am afraid that I have more feelings for Nate because Jake is so great that I am afraid to get too attatched to him, in case I could get hurt. I really want to make the right choice. Please help me.
Jenny317 Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 see the thing is that you have to take a chance... if you like Nate better ask Nate out, you have to be a risk taker! I went out wit a guy joseph and i cared about him, and i was also afraid to get hurt but i told him yes when he asked me out. look... it isn't that bad! When you are ready just play it ! You both will fall in soon i garrente that! ~Diva A.K.A. Jenny
faux Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 If you are so uncertain about what choice to make, perhaps you should take more time in making that choice. Do not rush yourself in these matters. Go with your feelings. The day will come, not too far in the future, when you will know which of these men you want to become involved with.
Author sprightlee Posted May 6, 2004 Author Posted May 6, 2004 Thanks for the advice. I think I am going to wait it out a bit and evaluate my feelings.
CurlyIam Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 I went out with a "Jake" ! I was great, probably the greatest relationship I ever had, but it didn't last. You want to learn foreign languages, go to a Language school, want to talk about books, call your friends. Your boyfriend is for lovin', honey!!!
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