PJKino Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Try a dictionary. Basic spelling skills are pretty high on most women's list of attractive qualities... Nice way to avoid responding to what i said:laugh: You know its the truth
AHardDaysNight Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 LOL seems like you rushed it quite quick yourself, jacko "I am a Jackson, not a Jacko" - Michael Jackson
Pyro Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 P/M s and post on a forum counts? lol... f'ck that in my experiences. experiences? Since when do you have some?
threebyfate Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Good and bad, right and wrong are such subjective terms. Why not look for someone who has compatible values and goals, someone who consistently lives by the values they claim?
zengirl Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 To the thread title question: Look at women as individuals, and seek out character. (Change "women" to "men" and you have how a good woman finds a good man, as well.) Then, look for markers of chemistry and compatibility to further narrow it down, but use character as your first "sifter" --- when you choose only to associate with people of character (people who are kind, optimistic, respect themselves and others and do what they say they will is a good place to start re: what's "character" anyway?) Of course, before all that, you have to be a quality person first, or else people with good character will treat you warily. Yep. Don't waste your time. I never met even one who wasn't a recovering something, bankrupt, fresh out of a bad breakup, or a history of short term relationships... To top it off, they usually expect sex on or before the 3rd date or else you must not be their 'soulmate'. Get this.. I had one guy... a lawyer and father... telling me he wanted to bury his face in my *ss... and that was after one 'date', two weeks of emailing, and just learning my last name, oh, one day before. That is pretty much typical for the men there. FTR, it all depends. I've never experienced any of these issues with someone I met from online, and I've met many guys, several friends (dates that had no chemistry but lots of compatibility), and even a couple BFs online. Not that I'm saying you or iris should try anything in particular; you both sound more limited than your locations than individual venues.
musemaj11 Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 You will have a higher chance of landing a good woman by completely avoiding American women. I havent been around LS lately because Im visiting a relative in a foreign country and the quality of the women here is the polar opposite. All I can say is that choosing to be with an American woman means that you are selling yourself short.
musemaj11 Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Agreed. I wish more men would go past the smile and eye contact... you have to take the initiative! I am waiting for a guy like you! You dont have to wait. You can do that yourself. Oh wait, its way easier to just expect someone else to do it for you.
skydiveaddict Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 experiences? Since when do you have some? I beg to differ sir. Not everyone in life has a fairytale romance that turns into true love and marriage like yours did. You are one of the lucky few!
dreamingoftigers Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Both genders have an issue with changing gender roles. It is not all one sided. True that, just trying to stay relevant to the thread.
dreamingoftigers Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 You will have a higher chance of landing a good woman by completely avoiding American women. I havent been around LS lately because Im visiting a relative in a foreign country and the quality of the women here is the polar opposite. All I can say is that choosing to be with an American woman means that you are selling yourself short. Canadian women are wonderful At least some of us.
Pyro Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 I beg to differ sir. Not everyone in life has a fairytale romance that turns into true love and marriage like yours did. You are one of the lucky few! more than a few out there. My post was directed at someone who can't speak of relationships considering they have never been in one.
betterdeal Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 You dont have to wait. You can do that yourself. Oh wait, its way easier to just expect someone else to do it for you. Why so mean? Some people are afraid to approach others, that's all.
musemaj11 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 (edited) Why so mean? Some people are afraid to approach others, that's all. True, but that doesnt mean others should do it for you. Edited September 2, 2011 by musemaj11
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 My good man found me on Match.com. Yes, it can happen. Oh, wait. I am an American woman, so I must be garbage. Sorry for speaking out of turn, oh knowledgable ones.
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