cdm369 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Im at a loss for what to do or how to feel.....im currently engaged to a woman im absolutely in love with...we were married once before got divorced and were apart for 10 years pryor to reconciliation. There was an EA involved on her part. We were both young and I feel we have both grown up so much. Not that I don't want to trust her but that is always there. I think what concerns me most is I feel she tends to put herself in bad spots. Which puts me in bad spots. I analyze things too much some times so when she gets texts or talks to people on FB it gets to me. There are times when she offers up what's going on and then there are times when she's secretive about it. Also told me once before she is big on privacy. Says she has nothing to hide I can ask to see her phone anytime but not to pick it up and go through it. This bothers me cause I don't care what she goes through of mine. What to do?
magnus mateo Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Trust issues do not go away. Especially if there isn't any transparency in the relationship. Trust me, your trust issue is going to skyrocket to another level of distrust after the wedding. A relationship without trust is not a relationship at all. It is a game show. Sometimes, love is not enough. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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