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Insecurity/anxiety problems?


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I am now official with a sweet girl. I have a few concerns, though.

 

The first is that I'm a little insecure, and I worry that I'll bore her and she'll find another guy. She hangs around a lot of other guys at our dorm a lot, and I know that that's not bad, but it makes me anxious. A lot of them are more similar to her in personality, and I think that many of them wouldn't have a problem making a move.

 

The second is that I'm an introvert who likes quiet, small activities, but she enjoys getting dirty and going to sporting events. I plan to have fun with her, but I dread the "dirty and loud" activities. Also, I haven't bought the $150 season pass needed to go to events this semester, and she has. I think it would normally be a bad idea to make a sudden purchase for someone I haven't been with for a long time, but since it's traditional to have a "date" to these sports (and to kiss that date) it seems wrong to leave her to go alone or with another guy.

 

What do you think?

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