mindgame13 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 me and my girlfriend broke up, 3 weeks ago and now we havent been in contact for 5 days, she broke up with me and wanted nothing to do with me. so around this time last week i deleted her off facebook and she hit the roof about it posted" bloody pathetic sometimes you make my blood boil" but what i dont get is i deleted her at 1pm and whatever she was doing that night she tried to go on my profile at 2.15pm in the morning , then she text me asking " hey, im gonna take it you wont want help looking after amy when your mum goes away then ?" my mum is going away to aus for 3 weeks in a month, i should of stuck my ground on deleted her it affected her, but i want her back and ye so i said this" sorry aint text back been at work, would be nice to see you and could do with a hand but up to you x then she said how am i suppose to help when your deleting me from you life socially? i said i was really upset last night and i just didnt no what to do sorry, she put " right ok then " i said " i no it was really silly, i didnt meant anything by it". the last time we spoke was around 5 days ago and i just said asked how she was and she asked me and that was it. i have read up so many different things on what to do next. whether no contact or what? i want her back more than anything but i no begging aint gonna help anything anyone put some light on how she feeling? i think she may think she still got me wrapped round her little finger
robdrm32 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 she kind of does have you around her finger. Why in the world would you apologize for deleting her off facebook and then continue to say i'm sorry i didnt mean anything by it? dude, she dumped you, cut her out of your life. and if/when she contacts you giving you crap all you have to do is say "hey this is what you wanted" you don't have to be enemies but tell her unless she wants to get back together you gotta do your best to move on, and that involves cutting her out of your life. She is fully capable of understanding that she just wants you under her thumb, show her you aren't.
leftfordead2 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 she kind of does have you around her finger. Why in the world would you apologize for deleting her off facebook and then continue to say i'm sorry i didnt mean anything by it? dude, she dumped you, cut her out of your life. and if/when she contacts you giving you crap all you have to do is say "hey this is what you wanted" you don't have to be enemies but tell her unless she wants to get back together you gotta do your best to move on, and that involves cutting her out of your life. She is fully capable of understanding that she just wants you under her thumb, show her you aren't. What he said. Well deleting her off facebook is a start. DO NOT contact her anymore. Even if she does contact you, keep it short, simple and to the point if you MUST reply. STOP apologizing for your own actions. She broke up with you, you do not need to account to her for any of your actions now. If she gets mad, ignore her.
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