Buttercup84 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 I can't stand the fact that someone else is going to experience the intimacy we had . It's far more than sex , I miss our weekend cuddles in bed and just being able to kiss him when I wanted to . I dated before but never felt so in love with someone . At first , he was more into me than I was into him. Now I'm the one still so in love with him . He said he lost the strong feelings for me because we argued a lot . Weekends are the worst for me . Sorry for ranting , just feeling so damn sad .
fauxleather Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Wow Buttercup, I just had the exact same feelings this morning. Feeling sooooooooo f'd up now. My ex and her new guy is like entering the first month of their new r/s soon and here I am, still actually being bothered by the whole thing when I'm pretty sure she isn't bothered by it even in the slightest bit. I feel so stupid.
Misar7 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Right there with you!! Ugh weekends are so much worse cause that is when we went out to eat hung around the house and watched movies went out or hung out at friends now I go and it just reminds me of him and how he isn't there cause he is too busy shacking up with someone else!
solobeary Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 I know, it's so hard. For me, the cuddles and having someone there to hug was almost what I missed the most. I still do. One day we will have someone else to cuddle and be with again. It's not like he was the only guy in the world capable of that. It seems like that right now, but we'll experience different things in the future. Until then, I'm trying to and enjoy what you can about being single. Spreading out across the whole bed, getting more pillows, adding an extra warm blanket, going to bed whenever I want. It does suck though.
intigo Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 weekends are a livimg hell she has stolen my heart everywhere i go i think of her the nights we shared as one, i hate my self i love her so much and realising that i will never have her again makes me sick
M2155 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 I'm with all of you. It hurts. The weekends are the worst because I realize how lonely I am. I remember used to have that! I know how good it once was! Why is he making so much effort for her? It sucks. I am so in need of a tall dark handsome distraction. Once I had a BF that I pined over for months after we broke up (I wasn't NC but I had given up chasing) until the day I met the next guy. I was smitten and never looked back. Ironically once I was a couple months into relationship next guy, that ex-BF all of a sudden started "checking up on me." I will feel like I've "moved on" when I meet someone that I am excited about to prove that there are better guys out there for us. Have to remember they CHOSE to let us go. We hope they realize the grass is not greener, but we're turning brown waiting:bunny:
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