J. Page Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Hello Well I really like a girl, we have been like friends over the last months, I think I always like her, but didn´t have the gut(my mistake) to approach her that way. Anyway 5 months ago, I was having a relationship with another woman, she was my girlfriend at the time and the first girl notice that something was different, so she started giving me more attetion, like puting her hand over my leg(just for a few seconds) when we were with our friends, saying that if I wasn´t there, she would be bored, that kind of stuff. A month later I broke up with my girlfriend... And a month ago after a few tries...I had a great night with the first girl, just talking, stuff like that and in the end she said that we could have a dinner soon. After that her father got really sick. I send her a few messages and flowers to her work place. She send me a wonderful(almost perfect) message, thanking me the flowers( and a book to her dad), calling me angel,saying that she had no words, that I have a special place in her heart, but she call me friend. And that´s not the best thing right now, because I want her more than as a friend. Any serious help please. Thank you.
Feelsgoodman Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Hello Well I really like a girl, we have been like friends over the last months, I think I always like her, but didn´t have the gut(my mistake) to approach her that way. Anyway 5 months ago, I was having a relationship with another woman, she was my girlfriend at the time and the first girl notice that something was different, so she started giving me more attetion, like puting her hand over my leg(just for a few seconds) when we were with our friends, saying that if I wasn´t there, she would be bored, that kind of stuff. A month later I broke up with my girlfriend... And a month ago after a few tries...I had a great night with the first girl, just talking, stuff like that and in the end she said that we could have a dinner soon. After that her father got really sick. I send her a few messages and flowers to her work place. She send me a wonderful(almost perfect) message, thanking me the flowers( and a book to her dad), calling me angel,saying that she had no words, that I have a special place in her heart, but she call me friend. And that´s not the best thing right now, because I want her more than as a friend. Any serious help please. Thank you. You're being too nice to her (and thus killing whatever chances you may have had...)
Author J. Page Posted August 27, 2011 Author Posted August 27, 2011 (edited) And what do you recommend now for me to do? Her dad is in the hospital, and she doesn`t want visits for now. I don´t want to sound like an opportunist, but I was having the secret hope that with the flowers and this kind of gestures...maybe I could reach some emotional response from her in a good way and just maybe touch her heart with a true romantic sense. Edited August 27, 2011 by J. Page
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