Buttercup84 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Before me my ex was in a 2 and a half year relationship . She left him three times , and apparently treated him badly . Almost straight away he signed up to a dating site ( he met her on there ) and went on dates . Weeks later we got set up by his mum . He told me it was three months since their split , but later let it slip that it was weeks . I also found out that while they were together he was emailing a girl he met over the phone at work . Because his then gf was a bitch . Well we were together For two years and lived together , he wanted to get married etc . He broke up with me 6 weeks ago because he was no longer in love . I also found out that he signed up for the dating site again a day before he dumped me . I just don't understand his problem .
Nohbody Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 You don't need to understand it. All you need to do is focus on getting over him as best you can. Small steps, all the old advice. You'll never figure it out. Eventually you might come to an explanation that works for you, but you'll never really know - and chances are, neither will he. Good luck, keep on truckin'.
dumpedandsore Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Thank you xx please, my ex even went on to sign up for expensive dating classes to hook and seduce attractive ladies he feels totally unremorseful for what he has done to me (dumped me without a word, and never contact me again by blocking me away). A veteran love cheat, player. probably while he was dating me, he was already trying to find alternatives. i simply can't believe he is capable of such cruel acts. when he is just a plain dull looking fat, poor men...whom girls dont usually bother looking at..
GgirlBgirl Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 I am actually listening to the audiobook The Game about the pick up community. One to keep my mind off him and two to gain some righteous fury post BU. Also, I don't want to be a sitting duck when I decide I'm ready to get back out dating. The teachings are pretty pervasive in the online dating and speed dating communities trying to build perceived intimacy unnaturally. Adding to the rant, my ex had to eat gluten free pie with his new female friend. I asked a friend how it compares and she said it sucks. That made me smile. They don't deserve good quality people.
shayla Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 he feels totally unremorseful for what he has done to me (dumped me without a word, and never contact me again by blocking me away). A veteran love cheat, player. probably while he was dating me, he was already trying to find alternatives. i simply can't believe he is capable of such cruel acts. when he is just a plain dull looking fat, poor men...whom girls dont usually bother looking at.. Oh my goodness, this was my ex exactly. I could not believe that he had absolutely no feeling about how he treated me. And he looks exactly the way described in this quote. He has to have done this many times before. I mean damn, he married another woman 2 months after dumping me.
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