jj12345 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 So I met this girl recently while i was on vacation, and I don't know if she likes me or not. Here are some signs that she shows. She stares at me sometimes, and then looks away instantly when i catch her eyes. One time she kind of held the stare for a second or two then looked away. She wanted to high five me out of no where. She asks questions about me out of the blue, even when we aren't in a conversation. Questions like what grade I'm in and if I'm exited to go home. She asked me what college I was going to go to, and she kind of smiled when she found out i was going to the same college as her. When Im with my friends she's constantly bothering us. Her and her friend wanted to play a joke on me but it went horribly wrong because they couldn't stop laughing. She was talking to her friend one time really quietly and when i came into the room they started laughing. When I asked what was so funny they started laughing even more. So Im not a particularly good looking guy, in fact my friends tease me about being "ugly", so thats why i was wondering if she actually does like me. However i do consider myself to be kind of funny, because i can make people laugh, and I know I've made her laugh a good amount of times. P.S. I really like her, and i think that she's really beautiful!!!!
SelfControl Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 jj....the best way to find out if a girl likes you is to ask her for her HOME phone number. The reason for doing this is because you NEVER ask a girl directly if she likes you. You ask for the HOME phone number to gauge whether she likes you or not. It's a side shot technique. If she likes you she'll give it to you without hesitation. If she doesn't she won't or she'll come up with some other response, like 'it's better if I call you'. If she says anything other than her phone number, she doesn't like you. Don't take it personally if she doesn't. She's just one girl out of millions out there. The important thing is that you showed enough confidence to try. She'll respect you for it. And, best of all, you'll respect yourself no matter what the outcome is. If she does give you the number, wait at least 5 days and then call her to ask her out on a one-on-one date. Go play pool or bowling or something. Give it a try and post what happens.
Dorie Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 SelfControl gives good advice here. Ask for her number because the signs are very good.
Author jj12345 Posted August 27, 2011 Author Posted August 27, 2011 I already have her cell phone number SelfControl gives good advice here. Ask for her number because the signs are very good.
SelfControl Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Ok. Let's analyze this further to see if she likes you. How, specifically, did you get her cell phone number? Where were you? Who were you with? Who asked who? If you asked her, what was her response? Did she give you the number right away? Or, did she hesitate? In other words, provide as much detail as you remember about when you got her number. It's very important.
Author jj12345 Posted August 28, 2011 Author Posted August 28, 2011 I never asked for her number she just said "Oh, hey let me put my number into your phone." Now that may indicate that she likes me, but whenever I text her she either doesn't respond or doesn't seem very interested in what I have to say. Ok. Let's analyze this further to see if she likes you. How, specifically, did you get her cell phone number? Where were you? Who were you with? Who asked who? If you asked her, what was her response? Did she give you the number right away? Or, did she hesitate? In other words, provide as much detail as you remember about when you got her number. It's very important.
SelfControl Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 jj...her putting her cell phone number in your phone is a good sign. Women help you when they like you. Now, with that being said, I don't want you to get your hopes up too high just yet. By her giving you her cell phone number voluntarily it just means that she likes you enough to try to get to know you better, not to marry you or anything. So, the next step is for you to ask her out on a one-on-one date. To do this you need to call her. Stay away from the texting. Texting is too risky. For example, let's say you text her and it doesn't go through for some reason. Now your left wondering why she didn't text back when in reality is she never got it. It's the same with emails and voicemails. The best thing to do is stay away from those things and call her to ask her out. This way you'll know for sure that you conveyed that you want to take her out and your guaranteed to know her answer. So, if you haven't talked to her for a few days, which I am hoping you haven't since it was the weekend and you were busy with the other 100 girls who are chasing you, give her a call tonight and ask her out. Tell her specifics and give her a couple of days lead time. For example, say "I want to take you out for ice cream on Wed. at 8pm. I'll pick you up a 7:30. Can you make it?" By being this specific you are leaving very little room for misunderstandings. If she says yes, then you will show up on time, joke around with her during the entire date and drop her off at a reasonable time, say 9:30. Keep the date short. Now, if she says anything other than yes, then she doesn't like you. You'll have to prepare your ego for this, but you can do it. Men get turned down by women all the time, even after they showed signs that they like them at first. Don't take it personally. Just take it as a learning experience and you'll be that much stronger for the next time. There is one exception though to her saying she cannot make it. If she says that she can't make it on Wed, but she can make it on Thursday, than that is not a no. That is what is called a counteroffer. She is essentially saying that she is busy Wed. but she likes you enough to offer another night to go out. If this happens, go ahead and go out on Thursday instead. Again, women help you when they like you. Just don't go out on Friday or Saturday, just yet. That comes later if things go well. If she counteroffers for Friday or Saturday, tell her you have plans and set the date up for Sunday, either afternoon or night. If you have talked to her recently, go a day or two without communicating with her and then call her to ask her out. Follow the suggestions above, be specific and stay away from Fridays and Saturdays.
Author jj12345 Posted August 28, 2011 Author Posted August 28, 2011 Thank you for the advice, I'll try calling her tomorrow to see what happens. jj...her putting her cell phone number in your phone is a good sign. Women help you when they like you. Now, with that being said, I don't want you to get your hopes up too high just yet. By her giving you her cell phone number voluntarily it just means that she likes you enough to try to get to know you better, not to marry you or anything. So, the next step is for you to ask her out on a one-on-one date. To do this you need to call her. Stay away from the texting. Texting is too risky. For example, let's say you text her and it doesn't go through for some reason. Now your left wondering why she didn't text back when in reality is she never got it. It's the same with emails and voicemails. The best thing to do is stay away from those things and call her to ask her out. This way you'll know for sure that you conveyed that you want to take her out and your guaranteed to know her answer. So, if you haven't talked to her for a few days, which I am hoping you haven't since it was the weekend and you were busy with the other 100 girls who are chasing you, give her a call tonight and ask her out. Tell her specifics and give her a couple of days lead time. For example, say "I want to take you out for ice cream on Wed. at 8pm. I'll pick you up a 7:30. Can you make it?" By being this specific you are leaving very little room for misunderstandings. If she says yes, then you will show up on time, joke around with her during the entire date and drop her off at a reasonable time, say 9:30. Keep the date short. Now, if she says anything other than yes, then she doesn't like you. You'll have to prepare your ego for this, but you can do it. Men get turned down by women all the time, even after they showed signs that they like them at first. Don't take it personally. Just take it as a learning experience and you'll be that much stronger for the next time. There is one exception though to her saying she cannot make it. If she says that she can't make it on Wed, but she can make it on Thursday, than that is not a no. That is what is called a counteroffer. She is essentially saying that she is busy Wed. but she likes you enough to offer another night to go out. If this happens, go ahead and go out on Thursday instead. Again, women help you when they like you. Just don't go out on Friday or Saturday, just yet. That comes later if things go well. If she counteroffers for Friday or Saturday, tell her you have plans and set the date up for Sunday, either afternoon or night. If you have talked to her recently, go a day or two without communicating with her and then call her to ask her out. Follow the suggestions above, be specific and stay away from Fridays and Saturdays.
ronald2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Posted September 2, 2011 Take a step forward. Show him signs that you like her. Staring at her for a few seconds. Not longer than 5 seconds or you might scare her. And then another step forward by asking her phone number and stuff. Texting would be a great idea as well. It's easier to confess thru text. =)
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