y2k Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 PS- I know the spark goes away in every relationship...but my H is controlling...i cant go out, cant have friends(even tho he says go for it) and cant even speak to a man without telling him. Think I should leave? Its easier said than done. Boy am I a hot mess. Wtf is wrong with me? ....hmmmm be gentle. but i do appreciate opinions. My opinion is that deep inside, your heart is empty. You don't love your husband. It seems like you only love him for "obligation". From what you've written about him, he sounds terrible. Whether you've found another great guy or not, you should consider leaving this husband of yours. And the spark doesn't go away in all relationships. That's just a generalization. I've seen couples who've never had the spark die. Then again I've seen couples who are miserable. Why continue to be one of the miserable ones, especially since you found someone else (maybe)???? No matter what, I think you should leave your husband, then pursue something with this other guy. Maybe this other guy is your knight in shinning armor. Maybe he's not. Maybe some other guy is, and you'll meet him down the road. Either way, leave your husband.
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