funnyface Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 (edited) I just feel like my situation is so confusing, here is an explanation http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t293020/ We broke up 2 weeks ago, did LC, and I have done NC for 8 days so far. However... I can't help going by what he has told me the entire time, how depressed he is, and how that was the reason for him ignoring me, and how sorry he was. Its been very hard because I don't know anything about depression, but it seemed like he was totally fine around anyone else but me, and I was the only person he was cutting out of his life. *I* broke up with *HIM*, but only because of the way *HE* was acting, I felt like I had no choice. I loved him, I cared about him...I still do! He admitted that I was right and he wasn't treating me right. So while I have been good with NC, and good with moving on and my progress so far, that I did the right thing, I still remind myself of everything he has told me... which makes me feel bad at times. Now I feel like the way I'm supposed to act is muddled. Do I continue NC? Do I wait for him to come to me? Would it be wrong to text him and simply ask how he is doing? Edited August 26, 2011 by funnyface
StussyMagnet Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Hey, don't text him. Go back and read FinOuch's reply to you in the post you linked to.
wilsonx Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 and my reply... you did the right thing, just let him go. It will take a lot of time
Author funnyface Posted August 27, 2011 Author Posted August 27, 2011 Thanks for the reality checks. Its just confusing. I'll stay strong and keep doing NC.
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