Misar7 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 My ex and I were together 8 yrs broke up with me but were still seeing each other and the last few months were him trying to talk me into having his baby and I said not without commitment first, so 2 wks later he is shacking up with someone else. It's been 4 wks now he has been with her and acts as if I am dead to him. Well we had a dog together and I miss her soo much!! I am crying as I write this, I would give anything to see her again. She was our dog together, he says she is his dog and I asked about seeing her and he ignored me of course..this was 3 wks ago. This is so unfair! The new girl not woman but girl she is 11 yrs younger than me that he is seeing is probably playing with her and loving on her. She was my baby girl, she was attached to me as I am to her. Who does he think he is??!! WHAT AN ASS!! Thanks for letting me vent!
KathyM Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 My ex and I were together 8 yrs broke up with me but were still seeing each other and the last few months were him trying to talk me into having his baby and I said not without commitment first, so 2 wks later he is shacking up with someone else. It's been 4 wks now he has been with her and acts as if I am dead to him. Well we had a dog together and I miss her soo much!! I am crying as I write this, I would give anything to see her again. She was our dog together, he says she is his dog and I asked about seeing her and he ignored me of course..this was 3 wks ago. This is so unfair! The new girl not woman but girl she is 11 yrs younger than me that he is seeing is probably playing with her and loving on her. She was my baby girl, she was attached to me as I am to her. Who does he think he is??!! WHAT AN ASS!! Thanks for letting me vent! Good for you for not agreeing to have a baby with someone you were not in a commited relationship with. Good riddance to that guy. Sorry about your having to lose the dog. Maybe consider getting yourself a dog that can be yours alone.
Queen of Hearts 10 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Misar7, As your tears fall they will clean up your hurt for you to see a man that will love you once again ! A new man in your future, or a new puppy ! Please don't look at the other girl he is with ! She is young but also the one who might dump his butt in the END ! What goes up must come down, and What goes around comes around ! All of the famous sayings are true. I hope for you to do your healing and come out of this stronger. Strong enough to resist him when he comes looking for you. By then you will be happy and not need or want him any longer. This has been hell week for me to ! I have a super dog named Rocky ! I saved him from death row at a pound. He was 3yrs old. Now 7 yrs old. I have poured a lot of love into him. He knows my hurt and depression. Last time my EX was over Rocky didn't want to come up to him ! Ha Ha ! Please help another dog that so needs your love ! It has been expensive though ! Peace to you !! Queen of Hearts 10
FeelingSmall Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Good for you for standing your ground. That's not always an easy thing to do and doing it cost you something near and dear. I'm very sorry for the loss of the dog, that's heartbreaking. They are a member of the family, my pets are my children. I would suggest hitting the pound, as QOH has said. Go find a puppy/dog desperately in need of a second chance that will indeed fill your heart with love again. That POS you were with is not worth another thought or tear. To think he wanted you to have a baby without any kind of commitment and then shacked up with some chick 2 weeks after you say no?!? Give me a break. That childs life would have been FABULOUS I bet. Blah. Again, I commend you for being strong and smart. You dodged a serious bullet, hope you're thrilled he's gone, cause you should be. Good luck!
ruffianheart Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Misar, I am so sorry to hear about your pain and missing your dog. Did you purchase the dog? If so, do you have any proof of this? Do you have any veterinarian records in your name that list you as the owner? If you have any of these, you may be able to go to court to obtain the dog. Good luck to you.
D-Lish Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 Fight for your dog! When myH and I divorced we actually included the custody of our dogs into our divorce agreement. He still pays for hald the vet bills 10 years later- it's what we agreed upon. Who paid for the dog, him or you?
whichwayisup Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 My ex and I were together 8 yrs broke up with me but were still seeing each other and the last few months were him trying to talk me into having his baby and I said not without commitment first, so 2 wks later he is shacking up with someone else. It's been 4 wks now he has been with her and acts as if I am dead to him. Well we had a dog together and I miss her soo much!! I am crying as I write this, I would give anything to see her again. She was our dog together, he says she is his dog and I asked about seeing her and he ignored me of course..this was 3 wks ago. This is so unfair! The new girl not woman but girl she is 11 yrs younger than me that he is seeing is probably playing with her and loving on her. She was my baby girl, she was attached to me as I am to her. Who does he think he is??!! WHAT AN ASS!! Thanks for letting me vent! Go to your local police station and ask what you can do about 'shared' custody of the dog. If he bought it before you two got together, this may be harder to achieve (joint custody of the dog), but if it was bought while you two were living together, then it is just as much YOUR dog as it is his. My friend's husband has a dog, he and his ex share custody of the dog. One week there, one week with him. They are pretty good with passing the doggy off and also quite leaniant (leanant? Sorry spelling!lol) about holidays and taking care of the dog during longer times. Anyway, your ex sounds like a real jerk! He obviously met or was cheating you with this other woman. Yuck! So glad you didn't have a child with him!
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