jenjen83 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Hi I'm new to these forums but have been inspired already by the great advice on here. My boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me in June and it broke my heart. It seemed a bit odd to me to be so upset over such a short relationship but as it was a LDR I had invested a lot of effort in it and he was the first man I allowed myself to fall for in a long time. We have tried to be friends but even though the distance between us has helped I still found it painful (especially when he said he still liked me,called me sexy etc) so I started NC 7 days ago and it really does help. I guess I'm not looking for advice now but rather in a few weeks when I get the urge to contact him. I think going NC is the best thing a dumpee can do to move on so anyone considering it should give it a try.
Nohbody Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 It's not easy, but it is immensely helpful to the healing process. If you haven't already read it, this may help http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/ Good luck
Author jenjen83 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Posted August 26, 2011 Thank you. Just wish I'd done it 2 months ago!
Yuzuki Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 It's not odd to be upset over a short relationship. I'm in the same boat. I like to think it's not about the length of the relationship but how much it meant to you. Looks like you're not tempted to break NC for now, and that's good. Keep it up, and if it does start to get difficult, come to this forum and let people talk you out of it.
Author jenjen83 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Posted August 26, 2011 Thanks Yuzuki. I'm not feeling tempted at the moment luckily,partly cos I'm not using NC to get him back (I'm 99.9 percent he won't contact me)
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