JohnEl Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 im about to text my ex. I miss her so much and can't take it anymore. I don't know what to do without her. I'm so lost right now. I love her so much and she's gone. I still haven't accepted that she's not coming back. I can't imagine going thru life without her. It feels like my world is ending. How much longer am i going to feel like this? I can't take it anymore!
ScienceGal Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 It's going to take a long time. What you are going through is not so different than what others on here are going through. And, no one wants to be with someone that seems desperate. Being needy, clingy, and whining about how much you miss her will not make her come back. So, be prepared in case she doesn't write back. It might make you feel worse. You should wait until you aren't so emotional if you really want to contact her.
jeff2321 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 My advice to you is to not text her. Remember she left you.. she is the one that broke it off. Do you really want to beg someone to come back? Think about it. You need to read this thread immediately: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56954/ breaking NC will only make you feel worse man, trust me on that. Though perhaps you need to learn the hard way like I did. In that case, go ahead and text your ex and see what happens. Be good to yourself, Jeff2321
Yuzuki Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 I'm sorry you're going through this stage, I'm in it myself right now so I recognize the pain that you're describing. I was about to text my ex today as well but I didn't do it and now I'm relieved that I didn't. That's generally the way it goes whenever I feel tempted. So, if you haven't texted yet, then don't. Give it a day or two and you'll be happy you didn't. Just come here to vent whenever you need to.
Rorschach64 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 There is also a thread floating around these parts called "Post here instead of contacting your ex." what you have to say to her post it there and never let her hear your emotions she does not deserve to hear.
Diatribes Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Being needy, clingy, and whining about how much you miss her will not make her come back. So, be prepared in case she doesn't write back. It might make you feel worse. +1. Girls don't want to hear all that. I've read your threads and I have to say it would seem like you're beating the proverbial dead horse anyways. This girl is a manipulator and has some severe issues herself. You dodged a bullet bro. You'll look back upon this one day and regret how much you let this woman infest your psyche.
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