redrose1986 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Im 3months pregnant, and the baby father has completley cut me off. Im findingi it very difficult to cope. Ive accepted hes not into me anymore but i feel like its so unfair. I couldnt get rid of the baby but at the same time im not enjoying the pregnancy yet. Ive lost my faith.
Buttercup84 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Hey love I am so so sorry this has happened to you. Could you please tell me about your relationship and what happened ? Where do you live now ? do you work ?
Author redrose1986 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Posted August 26, 2011 Hey love I am so so sorry this has happened to you. Could you please tell me about your relationship and what happened ? Where do you live now ? do you work ? Didnt know him that long, but i feel for him. He made alot of effort. it was mutual. I work full time, but im finishing up next week. and moving back to nz. I live in australia. I think if i wasnt pregnant i would of got back out there just like everyone else does . but being pregnant makes me over emotionall and tired. Im just wanting the sunhine to come. I cry most days and suffering from anxiety.
Buttercup84 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Maybe you should talk to your GP about your anxiety and seek counselling.He can create a mental healthcare plan where you can get discounted visits to a counselor. I am doing that because I have anxiety too. I think NZ would have the same as here in Australia. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. But think of yourself first Ok ? the baby is important too but you come first.He is a jerk for bailing on you like that. Do you have friends and family who will help back home ? It is normal not to be excited about the pregnancy at this stage , with what you are going through.You always have options too.
danceallday Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Redrose - do you have family, friends, loved ones that you can reach out to at this time? I cannot even imagine what you are going through. It is really important that you are good to yourself at this time. You have to think about you and the baby.
magnus mateo Posted August 29, 2011 Posted August 29, 2011 Seek mental help. You have to get your mind right. You are not any good to yourself or the baby if you cannot think clearly. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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