starla33 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 (edited) So this will be our 3rd date tomorrow. This guy said he would let me know later in the week(WHICH IS NOW!!!) ,we already planned on what we are doing and that it is for sure in the evening. But I really need to know where we are meeting and what time etc.... Since he said he would let me know I really don't want to text and ask....but it's going to annoy me till tomorrow when I get completely pissed off. What to do? Edited August 26, 2011 by starla33
mortensorchid Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Sad to hear this. I think you are being blown off unfortunately. If he cares enough to keep an appointment no matter if it's business or personal, he'd contact you. I'd sit tight despite the fact that you obviously want him to call you. I was remembering once when I was supposed to have either #3 or #4 with someone a few years ago. It got to be 10 pm and I hadn't heard from him, so I called his cell and he said he messed up he was at a bar with some other friends. Wasn't true. Because afterward I never heard from him again, I was blown off. I wish I could be more positive about this for you, but I think you should move on from him.
mr.dream merchant Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Lol, I do this all the time. He's weighing out other options, be it other women, hanging back at home, or getting trashed with his friends. He isn't too sure about seeing you.
Starlin Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 When he contacts you to set up something, tell him you already have plans and will get back to him. It will drive him crazy..
Sanman Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Or the guy was simply busy and will text you in the morning. You already set up specific plans, right?
Author starla33 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Posted August 26, 2011 Yes we did make specific plans and no I texted him and he texted back and told me what time last night. The problem I'm annoyed with is this guy takes hours to text back, (doesn't call EVER...but most guys here don't which really gets on my last nerve). To be honest I can't deal with guys that take 4 hours or so to text back every time. Should I bring this up on our date? I don't want to continue dating someone that takes so damn long its a huge turn off for me believe it or not.
FitChick Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 If you want an instant reply, call him. I never text. I hate it.
grkBoy Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 So this will be our 3rd date tomorrow. This guy said he would let me know later in the week(WHICH IS NOW!!!) ,we already planned on what we are doing and that it is for sure in the evening. But I really need to know where we are meeting and what time etc.... Since he said he would let me know I really don't want to text and ask....but it's going to annoy me till tomorrow when I get completely pissed off. What to do? Call him. Why would you not at this point?
mortensorchid Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 So what happened? Did he call/text back and did you have the get together or not?
sleepessinoh Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 I would text and say that I was asked to do something but I am not sure if we have plans and I just wanted to check with you before I made other plans. I have done this several time and either they have made other plans or confirm ours...either way atleast I am not wondering anymore
carhill Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Either it was one helluva date or she's been abducted by aliens
Casablanca Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 Either it was one helluva date or she's been abducted by aliens Maybe it is both
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