dr25550 Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 I had an affair with my secretary and I'm trying to get over it. I feel like I loved her and it's been going on a while but recently we put a stop to everything. I've really limited contact with her by not initiating after work hours contact. We had the following conversation during work and just right after, then she doesn't reply back at the end. I'm having a tough time getting over it. Does this conversation mean anything do you think? Is she not wanting me to get over it or is she just trying to help herself feel better by hoping that I really didn't love her. Sec-Gonna be a few late. Me-Uh huh. What's new M-Other girl will have it ready S-FYI ....I'm hardly ever late. I'm just not there at 7:45. M-Uh huh. We got it ready. It's cool. S-U SUCK!!!!! M-Ya think S-I Know M-Thanks S-Still having thoughts or anything I should know? M-Nothing to bad. I've been doing pretty good. S-Well for what it's worth...I'm sorry for everything. M-Thanks. It means a lot. I've been much better since our last big convo. S-That's good. S-U stink! Lol S-So I guess u realized that u really don't care for me like u thought. Right? M-Not sure why you would say that. S-Sorry. Nevermind. M-No. What brought that up? S-No I'm sorry! Didn't mean to stir up things. Was just curious. S-Not mad at me are ya? M-No. Just surprised. S-What were u surprised about??? S-Hey!!! M-Just surprised you're so curious.
Author dr25550 Posted August 25, 2011 Author Posted August 25, 2011 Thing is, I wish she wasn't over me. She says she is but just don't know why she would bring all this up and then leave me hanging.
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