GTFO Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 I left ex my 2+ months ago, yet he still feels the need to come into contact with me. 9 Days ago he sent me numerous messages begging for me to take him back, how he still loved me, could do anything for me, etc. I rejected him, told him that I've moved on, he needs to as well. Now, today I get a message from him telling me this: "Saw this girl, we kissed and cuddled in the Jacuzzi, best time of my life." I responded telling him how glad I was for him to finally move on. (As I did. I have been seeing someone new for almost 2 months.) He then, continues to try and get to me with "Never felt like this before. I actually feel something now (no offense)" He then wrote about pretty much admitted to emotionally cheating on me with her, and sent me a picture of her. My response? "Cool, have fun, truly wish you the best! No contact for good now! I think you need someone who can love you, im glad!" He hasn't responded. Seriously guys, what's this guy's deal? He's not over me, am I right? Blocking his number would be ideal?
dave22 Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 Block him. First he tried begging you to take him back, now he is trying to make you jealous. If he hasn't clued in by now that you are no longer interested, I don't see that he is going to stop bothering you anytime soon.
Professor X Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 Yeah, you kinda gotta block him now. Just don't respond to him anymore, that's what keeps him sending you text messages.
somethingsimple Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 You broke up with him 2+ months ago and been seeing someone for almost 2 months now lol. Just noticed that haha. Anyways, the reason why he's still contacting you, its cause you respond. It gets to a point where its an addiction or obsession, whatever. Just completely ignore anything he's telling you, then he should eventually stop. Don't respond to anything in anyway shape or form. Even if its an emergency, he has other emergency contacts. Then it should stop. Trust me.
Author GTFO Posted August 25, 2011 Author Posted August 25, 2011 We were together for 6 years. I broke up with him 4-5 months prior to him moving away. However, we officially 'broke up' 2 months and a half or so ago when he moved out. However, we were roommates until he moved. There was no love, no emotional connection, nothing. Once he moved, I found someone new. I have no clue why he's mailing me if he is indeed so very happy with this new woman. If that's the case, go have fun ! Leave me be!
AlexDP Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 We were together for 6 years. I broke up with him 4-5 months prior to him moving away. However, we officially 'broke up' 2 months and a half or so ago when he moved out. However, we were roommates until he moved. There was no love, no emotional connection, nothing. Once he moved, I found someone new. I have no clue why he's mailing me if he is indeed so very happy with this new woman. If that's the case, go have fun ! Leave me be! You seem pretty cold and callous to be honest. What has he done to deserve such treatment from your end?
Author GTFO Posted August 25, 2011 Author Posted August 25, 2011 You seem pretty cold and callous to be honest. What has he done to deserve such treatment from your end? Emotionally abusive, controlling, possessive. Pretty much isolated me from any form of social life/friends. I was also treated miserably whenever id talk to anyone from the male gender. Am I still cold?
AlexDP Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Emotionally abusive, controlling, possessive. Pretty much isolated me from any form of social life/friends. I was also treated miserably whenever id talk to anyone from the male gender. Am I still cold? Yes, but there is obviously a reason to it. It wasn't meant as judgment, rather as an observation. I am the same way towards some ex's, but completely different towards others. It's also important to know what you're dealing with, before you decide to take further action.
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