Author LoveandSuch Posted August 26, 2011 Author Posted August 26, 2011 You know what's so funny about the silly advise given by people on here (esp men who think they know it all) is the fact that when a guy complains about how he didn't succeed in an approach to a woman. The first thing they say is, "It was in your approach, there was something you must've said that put them off." After what D-Lish said here, this just confirms that is complete BS. D-Lish is a woman who is actually turned OFF by a man that says all the "right things" So, THAT being said, I'll just keep doing what I'm doing. This more than likely would mean that me and D-lish would be more compatible. LOL Approaching and this thread is not really what it is about. It is about smooth womanizers, their approaches are different, and different then PUA pick up, hard to explain unless you have come across many. These guys are offering the, "dream package," for women, and being extremely charming in doing so. They are the mirror of the, Gold digger, in that they are offering all that glitters, which in reality is all smoke and mirrors, ugh hard to explain, it is just different then your normal approaches.
grkBoy Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Do whatever works best for you irc333. Just bear in mind D-Lish is one woman out of millions. So one might be turned off by all the "right moves" or "smooth moves", but it's meaningless to your point if the rest of the female population is turned on by said "moves".
Professor X Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Nooooo! That would result in a sure bet he would be slipping the number, lol. Better, I wonder how funny it would be to go, in more of a silent way, point to myself, "Who me," and then look down at my ta tas, and grab them with both hands and manipulate em, juggle them up and down! Ha Ha Ha! That would make someone drop their coffee! HAHA, and this won't end in him trying to slip you his number? He might even try and slip you his number in your cleavage. Ha! I think you'll end up being a super tease, that's horrible *And that will make everyone drop their coffee
April72 Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 I dated this guy once upon a time. I had just come out of a divorce. He was beautiful... beautiful. Charming. I soaked in his attention and lies like a dry sponge soaking in water. After leaving a man who constantly put me down.... to a man who showered me with BS. Of course he was also showing the same attetion to many other women he had quite a string of us. I would run him over with my car if I seen him on the street. But he served a purpose at the time. Built my self-esteem for a period even if it was falsely. But I felt like an idiot for being as old as I am and still falling for it. And the sex wasn't that good. Big regret. But these womanizers sometimes serve their purpose for the women that fall for it. I learned a powerful lesson and would never fall for it again.
iJester Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 All have different approaches, you just use psychological games as your tool. You are listening to them, spending a little time on them..and then la dee da da...happy hour time, then woops how did your johnson slip in my piehole? How did that happen?!!! A few days of talking would never cut it for me. But, then again, I do not just sleep around. Quite often, they're the ones to initiate conversation. I was just using girls from work as an example, since we're at work so much, we can get to know each other pretty quickly in comparison to someone you have to see more sporadically. I have no problem taking girls out and not pressuring for sex. I also think I'm pretty good at coming up with fun dates, tailored them. The real point is, if she likes you, it only takes patience. So LoveandSuch, if a few days of talking wouldn't do it for you, I'll just have to try hiking one week, the aquarium the next, dave and busters the next, and throw in a Smithsonian museum followed by cooking dinner for you and I'll have your panties. You can deny all you want, but statistics are not in your favor.
Memphis Raines Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 Guys that are good looking, charming, rich, have a "million dollar smile", etc. are few and far in between. Most women subconsciously realize that they would never be able to net a guy like that. Yet, they still want a bite...even though they know they can't have the entire meal. In other words, most women that supposedly get "seduced" by "womanizers" are not really the innocent victims they claim to be. and then we have to hear the whining about why they can't find a good guy when they prefer to hop in bed with bad boys. then we hear the complaining about the bad boys. and then they go right back to them again. Thats why as a guy in my early 40's, its a good place to be after a divorce. Because now you have all these women that have supposedly matured, looking for the right qualities in a guy (not that us good looking guys can't be nice guys), and are tired of the drama. So now is the time for payback. A man in his 40's thats single now can be the choosy ones. And I'm lovin it.
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