reimeivn Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 well so after the breakup I untag myself from some of the photos with him on facebook. and today when I checked my photos again, since, maybe, i might have a bf soon, I saw him untagged himself in all of the photos. In very few of them did he look happy, but still I feel sad. You know he treated me badly and dumped me, and so I had to block him. Its really not that I hated him or anything, just me preventing myself from bugging him anymore. As he wanted. All of his pictures that had me in it, I untagged myself, but I did save them somewhere. It was my first love, and so I dont know why but I am feeling sad right now.
ScienceGal Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 Any step away from the relationship is going to hurt at least a little, and this is no exception. What you did was strong and untagging yourself in photos is a small way of removing him from your life. I know it must hurt that he has done the same, but it isn't that shocking. Take a deep breath Now that he has done that, stop looking at things that remind you of him. I am fighting with myself BIG TIME right now and getting upset over little things that are perfectly normal... and you know why? Because I do not want to let go. I do, but I don't... you know? It's scary and really sad, but we have to. Our exes have let go, and we need to make every effort to do the same. There is someone else out there for you
calndn Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 well so after the breakup I untag myself from some of the photos with him on facebook. and today when I checked my photos again, since, maybe, i might have a bf soon, I saw him untagged himself in all of the photos. In very few of them did he look happy, but still I feel sad. You know he treated me badly and dumped me, and so I had to block him. Its really not that I hated him or anything, just me preventing myself from bugging him anymore. As he wanted. All of his pictures that had me in it, I untagged myself, but I did save them somewhere. It was my first love, and so I dont know why but I am feeling sad right now. Hello reimeivn You always tell me your opinion on my posts and this post of yours rings true with me too. My ex (frst love) blocked me on fb detagged all photos etc it hurt. He was emotionally abusive to me he was horrid so I got over the detagging. He's a part of my past so I haven't bothered to scour my photos maybe I should i don't know. But I only have about 4/5 of him anyway not that many. But then last month I found out not only has he detagged but he deleted ALL photos of me in his albums. That made me cry. I guess he's done it because he has a new gf i don't know. But this happened 3-4 weeks ago and I no longer care really. I just get upset that he has a new gf. Facebook is awful it causes so much upset, it's only a website xxx
Author reimeivn Posted August 25, 2011 Author Posted August 25, 2011 i havent thought about him getting a new gf but my mom said that the new gf needs him to do so. i think it makes sense. it feels better today though. its not like hes anyboby anymore. he already left.
Viv Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 Glad it feels better today I've asked b/f's in the past to de-tag photos of exes, it makes sense that that's why he's done it. Having said that I don't know how people going through break-ups can stay on facebook, is just too painful, I deleted mine years ago after breaking up with a boyfriend and haven't regretted it. Maybe it will help you move on if there is a new girl?
Author reimeivn Posted August 25, 2011 Author Posted August 25, 2011 yeah sure. i just dont feel much anything today anymore. maybe i dont really see him with his new gf, the thought havent been real in my mind yet, it hasnt hurt yet. i bet it will later.
calndn Posted August 26, 2011 Posted August 26, 2011 yeah sure. i just dont feel much anything today anymore. maybe i dont really see him with his new gf, the thought havent been real in my mind yet, it hasnt hurt yet. i bet it will later. I wasn't sure if my ex had a new gf but I had my suspicions and really deep down I knew. It wasn't until I saw something on facebook about her and them that I cried!
Author reimeivn Posted August 27, 2011 Author Posted August 27, 2011 calndn i dont think it matters. i think you will find another bf too when the time is right. enjoy the single time, honestly. funny enough i thought i really hit it off with this one guy but then he ignores the hell out of me, haha, so i guess its two heartbreaks during this short time. which makes the first one not really that big of a deal anymore.
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