exodusangel Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Iv'e dated this girl for a year and we recently broke up. We had constant problems in our relationship due to her and my insecurities and from her being so immature. She is only 19 and was 18 when i first met her. Her family kept her in doors and she never really had the chance to have a real serious relationship with someone. I was her first and was hoping to be her last in many things. Ultimately throughout our entire relationship she had constantly been flirting and trying to improve her looks and it kept causing fights between us she told me she was being controlled. I tried to be loose and relax, but then after i find out shes flirting again... She went on vacation to go see some of her family in a different state, we got into an arguement, she met another guy out there, then broke up with me. She came back, cut off that guy completely then went to visit her ex before me. Ironic eh? She hung out with him, he tried making advances but she kept coming back to me and eventually cut him off as well. I told her i didnt trust her and wouldnt for a while and i done nothing as of cheating or anything to hurt her. Eventually we moved in together in a different state then were forced to move back due to money issues. Me and her spent every hour of the day either texting or seeing each other. My friends told me since the start she was bad news and that i would get hurt, which eventually had happened. She started hanging out with one of her girlfriends daily and started drinking, etc. I'm certain this brought out her true self, and im afraid shell have sex with another man and realize she made a mistake. The day after our 1 year anniversary she broke it off with me telling me once again she feels like she is being controlled, and i find out the next day shes hanging out with a guy she has been having a crush on... It sucks to find out that i am the one left behind. I am 22 going on 23 and shes dating younger guys near her age im assuming of course. Who knows maybe shes not in a relationship but im afraid she may be. I sent her a message after 1 week of nc basically saying hi and she was intentionally trying to make me jealous but i saw right through it. It has always been her goal to make me beg for her and this time unlike last i wont submit to it. A week passed and i messaged her saying that another girl had been making advances on me but i wont do anything unless im 100% certain we are through. She brushed it off and started insulting me saying that i always put her down, which i never understood. Ever since then its been 2 weeks and she still hasnt talked to me but i noticed her facebook has went into a relationship but theres no guy.. i had a random person with no friends, that lives in the same city, and no pictures send me a friend request (im set to private and shes not on my friends list). Im trying so hard to get over her but i keep having dreams and random urges to call her. Its been a week since i sent her a text saying i love her and miss her basically. this week ive dedicated myself to remove her from my life and work on my self, but my dreams are making it hard for me. Its been almost a month in a few days since our initial break up. What do i do? Is there any hope for us? How do i get over her? Someone help, my friends dont offer good advice at all...
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