sicot Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 A lil bit of background on me ..i am 26 with a career my ex is 29 with also a carreer/independant/beautifull/educated/smart. I was dating that girl for almost three years,we lived together for almost 2 years, she was the love of my life we both was deeply in love. she broke it off because she said i am too controlling which sometime i admit, and thats my only downfall. She also got a problem of listening.Two months ago we got into a fight over here going out all the time and things get out of hand i acted crazyyyy, i hited her in front of her friend, (Iam a jerk i kno..)She broke it off, I litterally spent the month after trying to convince her to give us a other chance but without begging thu, i was jus pleading with her ,but didnt work.She said she is in love with me ,she need time, after a month, she still couldnt make up her mind on what she wants,She told me that rightnow she wants to be single, doest want a relationship.. So i decided to go NC because i didnt want to be hanging around until she change her mind.last week she ask me to take it slow meaning she is single ,i am single but we just friends, which i disagree on. I aske her lets commited to each other while we gradually taking it slow. but she wants it the other way around. i dnt want her to drag me along with her untill she change her mind if she ever gonna do it. But she constantly txting me telling me she still in love with me, but she refuse to be around me, to spend time with me, and to be commited to me ..its been two months what should i do ..Move on which i am working hard on doing ,or whatttt?????
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