Why does your ex disgust you?

[gibson]

Why does your ex disgust you?

 

She doesn't... I have great taste!

Edited May 23, 2012 by gibson

[CopingGal]

It's useless to feel this way. It only stunts your growth as a person.

 

I was manipulated, lied to, and cheated on in magnificent fashion but I got over it a day after it ended. That's the way you have to be.

 

We're all human. Leave your ego out of it and move on.

 

I can't force myself to forgive. It's gonna have to come naturally. I will forget when I am ready.

[carhill]

In my case, the more I reflected upon reality, subsequent to the divorce, and the more facts which came to light, the less animosity I felt. Instead, this feeling of peace swept over me. Everything made sense. Sounds odd, but true. I can't muster disgust, or any other negative feeling towards my exW at this juncture. It's quiet. I like that

[Jingle14]

1. liar (even lied about having had a vasectomy, I found out from my ex husband's new partner - who is friends with 'his' ex - that he had fertility issues)

2. sneaky

3. secretive

4. wrote horrible notes about me which I found but told me the opposite

5. cowardly

6. weak

7. cold

8. calculated

9. manipulative

10. controlling

11. just treated me like dirt, took advantage of my generosity (I paid for most things despite him earning 3 times more than me - I took him to really lovely places for a special treat whereas he took me to have breakfast at the local supermarket).

 

But, for all this, I'd take him back in a heartbeat for the truly lovely, wonderful, close and special times we shared. I don't think my heart, or me, will ever recover and he dumped me a year next month. He was my 'one'.

[Laveli]

1. liar (even lied about having had a vasectomy, I found out from my ex husband's new partner - who is friends with 'his' ex - that he had fertility issues)

2. sneaky

3. secretive

4. wrote horrible notes about me which I found but told me the opposite

5. cowardly

6. weak

7. cold

8. calculated

9. manipulative

10. controlling

11. just treated me like dirt, took advantage of my generosity (I paid for most things despite him earning 3 times more than me - I took him to really lovely places for a special treat whereas he took me to have breakfast at the local supermarket).

 

But, for all this, I'd take him back in a heartbeat for the truly lovely, wonderful, close and special times we shared. I don't think my heart, or me, will ever recover and he dumped me a year next month. He was my 'one'.

 

WOW after all that you would still take him back?

[Jingle14]

WOW after all that you would still take him back?

 

I know. What kind of mug am I. Strange though, I thought I was impervious to all this love crap before I met him, a huge cynic, independent and hard as nails. I wish I never had met him now, as my life is considerably poorer for allowing him into it.

[Laveli]

I know. What kind of mug am I. Strange though, I thought I was impervious to all this love crap before I met him, a huge cynic, independent and hard as nails. I wish I never had met him now, as my life is considerably poorer for allowing him into it.

 

Awww poor Jingle