Jonnyy Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Me and my ex have been on NC since last thursday (her idea) and i respected it and i agreed. Today i reactivated my facebook and i got a text from my ex saying "i thought you deleted your facebook?" i stayed strong and did not text back and didnt break NC. Now (a few hours later) she texted me saying "are you mad at me?" I want to stay NC but at the same time i feel bad not texting back. I know i shouldnt but i still do. Any advice?
Buttercup84 Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 I assume you are the dumpee , I would remain nc . This is about you healing , not her . kudos to you for remaining nc though !
Author Jonnyy Posted August 24, 2011 Author Posted August 24, 2011 Thanks for the kudos! and i am planning on keeping NC although it makes me feel kinda bad. But at the same time, i feel soo much better having her contact me and me being in control and not contacting back! I owe all my strength to you guys here on LS!
Author Jonnyy Posted August 24, 2011 Author Posted August 24, 2011 Another quick question. Since we are going to the same college in a couple days, we are bound to run into each other. How do i keep the contact small but friendly in the same way. I dont want to be a jerk and just ignore her if we bump into each other. Suggestions?
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