Shaun-Dro Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 This is ****ing ridiculous! Anyway, here's what happened this afternoon. I went into Target to get a few things. This was right after the Earthquake struck the backend of NYC. We just got some tremors, nothing serious in way of any damages, but next time... I was on line and at her register of course. I could already see her tensing when she spotted me, as her work became more hasty but then slowed a bit once the person before me got to her. She took forever to get this lady out of there by asking the woman if she wanted anything else and all this bull**** about upcoming sales, and other crap that my ex never usually indulges in. She was obviously doing this to prolong the process and hope I went to another register. I don't think so. When it was finally my turn, I admit that my heart skipped a beat and it takes a lot to affect me. Watching her throw my stuff in the bag hard to the point of almost breaking them and the lack of eye contact got on my nerves. This prompted the couple behind us to fetch another register and the man after them to ask "Is everything alright here?" to which I told him I need a moment with her, please excuse us. He walked away eventually. Cutting to the chase, I told her we had things to discuss and she just said "M-hm, m-hm" while ringing up my total. She didn't even batter an eyelash when I brought up the quake. I asked her, "What do I have to do? We both ****ed up here, let it be?" She looked dead at me and croaked, "What do you want then?" To which I said, "I want you back, there, okay?" She sort of smirked, turned sideways to me, finished ringing me up, and then said, "Prove it," and nothing more. She gave me my change and turned away to the next customer quickly. I walked out of Target with a bunch of stares and smirks from employees in there, but I ignored them. But I'm annoyed right now with this issue. What the hell is she talking in terms of proving it? How am I supposed to do that? And no I'm not getting on my hands and knees for her. I mean it...if it weren't for how sexy and cute she was, I would'nt have wasted my time, but I feel like we're unfinished business.
dasein Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 I this the one who can't boil water? WAKE UP, there are lots of women out there who look good in shorts who aren't painfully stupid or contrary to boot. You dodged a huge bullet and if you spend the time you are wasting mooning over her out finding better you will agree in time.
todd Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Who broke up with who and why? Prove it is telling me that words mean nothing. You going up to her register and telling her you want her back doesn't mean anything to her anymore. She is probably looking for something more then words and trying to see if you changed. Actions speak louder then words.
Mutant Debutante Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Is this the same girl who's like 15 years younger than you, who you picked up and tossed on the sidewalk to kick her out of your house?
FrustratedStandards Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 If you only want her back because you feel you have "unfinished business" and only because she is "Sexy" then believe me she can sense it. She probably doesn't think you are genuine in wanting her back. By "prove it" she means that she wants you to show how much you truly want her back, not just walk into her work and expect everything to be okay. By this I dont mean gifts or grand gestures, but sincerity and honesty. By the looks of it though you only want her back for more superficial reasons.
sm1tten Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 And another chapter in this teen melodrama begins.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted August 24, 2011 Author Posted August 24, 2011 If you only want her back because you feel you have "unfinished business" and only because she is "Sexy" then believe me she can sense it. She probably doesn't think you are genuine in wanting her back. By "prove it" she means that she wants you to show how much you truly want her back, not just walk into her work and expect everything to be okay. By this I dont mean gifts or grand gestures, but sincerity and honesty. By the looks of it though you only want her back for more superficial reasons. I want her back because yes, there's unfinished business and summer isn't over yet. Besides, I still have feelings for her because we had crazy fun during our short hiatus and in NYC, women are very difficult to get with. And she's not 15 years younger, but 12, and so what? I been made it very clear in my past threads that I don't do older women. Not my style. I really don't see how I'm supposed to show honesty and sincerity other than to grab her and plant a few wet ones but seriously, if picking up women were easy in NYC, sure I'd just get me another hot piece of ass, but I kind of got lucky with this young dame.
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Why must you perform your embarrassing displays towards this girl at her place of work? Who does that? Besides you?
Romeofud Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 I want her back because yes, there's unfinished business and summer isn't over yet. Besides, I still have feelings for her because we had crazy fun during our short hiatus and in NYC, women are very difficult to get with. And she's not 15 years younger, but 12, and so what? I been made it very clear in my past threads that I don't do older women. Not my style. I really don't see how I'm supposed to show honesty and sincerity other than to grab her and plant a few wet ones but seriously, if picking up women were easy in NYC, sure I'd just get me another hot piece of ass, but I kind of got lucky with this young dame. Yo man I suspect this chick is gonna put her own pussy on the pedestal and make you work to get it off lol. I know about them pr mamis here in the city. They act like their **** dont stink, but since you probably hit 2nd or 3rd base with her get the whole shebang. Man, just do what you did in the beginning with the ball-busting like restarting the whole flame again. I guarantee you she'll back in your arms in no time cause she young and naive like most.
vsmini Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 I want her back because yes, there's unfinished business and summer isn't over yet. Besides, I still have feelings for her because we had crazy fun during our short hiatus and in NYC, women are very difficult to get with. And she's not 15 years younger, but 12, and so what? I been made it very clear in my past threads that I don't do older women. Not my style. I really don't see how I'm supposed to show honesty and sincerity other than to grab her and plant a few wet ones but seriously, if picking up women were easy in NYC, sure I'd just get me another hot piece of ass, but I kind of got lucky with this young dame. Seriously - you really need to stop blaming so much on your geographical location of NYC. It's a lame excuse - it's not the city or NY women. You're just having a problem with women in general. So cut it out. Also - bad move going to her work - how exactly is she supposed to have an actual conversation with you there? Did you do that on purpose? To corner her? If you have to corner a girl to talk to you then it's already over. Prove it means you have to shape up and show her whatever it is she wants - you know more about what she wants than we do.
antinko Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 If I was her, I would have been pissed off with my ex turning up at my cash register. It just smacks of desperation and lack of respect for personal space. I mean, it's not like she had the chance to back out of the situation did she? She was literally fenced in and knew you were going to talk to her. If you want to 'prove it', you need to give her space and decide within yourself what your reasons for wanting her back are. If indeed they are purely superficial, then you have no chance. Otherwise, if they are true feelings, then you will do the right thing...
betterdeal Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Probably means she wants you to woo her again. You know, sweet talk, buy flowers, compliment her, make a bit of a tit of yourself. Then you might get a fondle. I take it you're okay with a relationship that isn't going to last or be anything but a long game of kiss chase, because that's what it is. But if pretty is important to you and you aren't interested in women your own age, this is what is on offer. The unfinished business you speak of is you feeling horny mixed with a bit of being pissed off that now she has the upper hand in this game you two are playing. Not my thing, but yeah, now you have to balance Mr Macho with Mr Smooth to get your hands on her.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted August 24, 2011 Author Posted August 24, 2011 Seriously - you really need to stop blaming so much on your geographical location of NYC. It's a lame excuse - it's not the city or NY women. You're just having a problem with women in general. So cut it out. Are you kidding me? This silly remark comes from a woman who's been in NYC and even admitted that they're is a disconnect? Now it's my fault for seeing things as they are? Women in NYC are heavily guarded toward men, period, unless she's drunk at a local lounge, then her defenses are dropped like a hammer. After the alcohol wears off, she doesn't want to know you. That's a fact! So, after having been able to break down the Target girl's walls and get a little somethng going with her was a huge break, considering how difficult it is to date in this deteriorating city. And I will get her back, one way or another, because I'm not about to go through another 500 women before finding another willing candidate. That's precious time wasted.
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