Challenger Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Hey guy's I wanted to take a few minutes and talk about some thoughts I've been having lately. Flake outs, it's happened to everyone at some point in the dating game. Maybe have a great first date with someone, they show interest in seeing you again, but flake out on the second meet or you meet someone online and have great email convo's then they flake out when you make plans to see eachother. There's many scenarios but they all leave us with the same question......What did we do wrong?? I know this because it happens to me and I really use to beat myself up about it. It would really bruse my ego! (here's a tip...DESTORY YOUR EGO! It's your biggest enemy in dating! ) I would get flaked out on after a great first meet and would spend days thinking, what did I do wrong? what could have I done different? Maybe I wasn't good looking enough, Maybe I didn't say the right things. Well all that changed when I realized the one thing that I was doing wrong or rather not doing at all. I wasn't respecting and valuing myself first! I spent all my time wondering what I did wrong , what I should have done different, when the whole time I should have been thinking You know what, I know I'm a great , fun guy that has a lot to offer someone and if she didn't see it then her loss! Who knows why people make the decisions they do but I do know it's not worth your time trying to understand the reasons why. Don't waste one more minute on flaker's, there taking time away from the people that do want to be with you! Mindsets: - respect and value yourself first - don't let your ego get in the way. Just go out there with a confident open mind have fun and don't spend any time on people with low interest. challenger
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