Gentle Spirit Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 What would you do if your live in boyfriend has become obsessed with Facebook for over a year now, opened a secret email account for it, has been moving the screen away from you or clicking screens closed when you come near, and has all this security on his laptop so no browsing history, passwords, etc are saved. Then one day he left when his computer was still shutting down. You find out he had started a profile as “Aramis” on OKCupid.com and had flirtatious messages to other women on both facebook and the dating site, with comments like “maybe we would be wonderful together.” He thinks I am insecure and should not be looking at his personal accounts, I think he is a sneaky liar who has a lot to hide. Then I saw the screen to his secret email account when I walked by and there were recent emails from some woman he just met that was also on his facebook that said things like “I don't appreciate you not calling me” and something about hugs, which he promptly deleted...am I being paranoid and insecure or do I have good reason to be suspicious?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 OK, and whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy are you still with this guy??
cdm369 Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 You have every reason to be concerned. People who arent trying to hide things don't act suspicious. He will tell you that you are paranoid even though you aren't. Reguardless of if he is up to something or not his behavior is the problem. He is at least acting untrustworthy. He would not be happy if you were doing those things.
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