joejoe Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Hey everybody, firstly thanks to everyone on here, really helps knowing that people actually want to help you in a practical way. So about 3.5 months since i got dumped from a 4 year relationship by a girl a really was truely in love with. Me 25 her 24, First love, she spoke about marraige,kids,house the works really felt we had something solid and real, not perfect but no serious problems at all. Still not positive as to why she ended it but have got alot of possibles from this site, gigs, another guy, her single friends, things becoming stale, me losing my confidence and being to nice and submissive, these are all possible reasons i feel now. Text a bit after a month and met up once went ok but have been NC now for nearly 2months again now. Im doing a bit better but to be honest I still feel terrible and down a huge amount of the time and miss what we had, Im defo still in love her even though tryin to convince myself im not. Initially really was hoping she would come-back but losing hope in that now and trying to move on. Since break-up, havn't been with any other girls or on any dates,but I have been workin out, partying, even went on holiday wit the boys, which she freaked over by the way! but nothing seems to be working to help me get over her and stop thinking about her. I think I realise now Im not happy with numerous aspects of my life and I need a totally fresh start so I can pursue my dreams and find myself. Im waiting on a job offer from abroad and if i get it, its new country,new job,new life for me. but at the same very anxious about emigrating alone and realise i will still miss her. Anyway sorry about that rant guess I just wanted to know what people thought of my situation. I hope things get better, thanks for any reading and any help given.
wilsonx Posted August 24, 2011 Posted August 24, 2011 Hey everybody, firstly thanks to everyone on here, really helps knowing that people actually want to help you in a practical way. So about 3.5 months since i got dumped from a 4 year relationship by a girl a really was truely in love with. Me 25 her 24, First love, she spoke about marraige,kids,house the works really felt we had something solid and real, not perfect but no serious problems at all. Still not positive as to why she ended it but have got alot of possibles from this site, gigs, another guy, her single friends, things becoming stale, me losing my confidence and being to nice and submissive, these are all possible reasons i feel now. Text a bit after a month and met up once went ok but have been NC now for nearly 2months again now. Im doing a bit better but to be honest I still feel terrible and down a huge amount of the time and miss what we had, Im defo still in love her even though tryin to convince myself im not. Initially really was hoping she would come-back but losing hope in that now and trying to move on. Since break-up, havn't been with any other girls or on any dates,but I have been workin out, partying, even went on holiday wit the boys, which she freaked over by the way! but nothing seems to be working to help me get over her and stop thinking about her. I think I realise now Im not happy with numerous aspects of my life and I need a totally fresh start so I can pursue my dreams and find myself. Im waiting on a job offer from abroad and if i get it, its new country,new job,new life for me. but at the same very anxious about emigrating alone and realise i will still miss her. Anyway sorry about that rant guess I just wanted to know what people thought of my situation. I hope things get better, thanks for any reading and any help given. You're doing fine, keep doing what you are doing, it takes time
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