Queen of Hearts 10 Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Spending time here on L.S. has taught me a lot through everyones pain. We share a common thread ! If I can help carry you I will as you have helped to carry me ! None of us wanted this lesson in life. So when LOVE has been riped from us we stand there with an empty hand, dazed at the loss. But can we say it was lost, or taken away ? Well I say let it go ! Because true love should only end at death. I can try to pretend with the wall of "NO Contact " but he is still alive and breathing every day. One sided love is such a waste of time creating as I found out an Illusion only I was in. He moved on in his head , and heart, months back so now I'm just catching up to that part of the story. he wrote the ending signed it and closed the book one year ago. Wow ! I was late to that book signing !! Burn the bridges of hope ! Take care ! Queen of Hearts 10
waliz Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I love the thought "none of us wanted this life lesson". As well the realization that they made of their minds months ago-finding out now is a shock and will take time to work through.
Author Queen of Hearts 10 Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 Sorry you are in my same boat ! I hope to never inflict this much pain on another person, as I have felt by the loss of my EX-husband. Each day seems to still carry the same level of pain. I think it would have been easier to take one big trauma to some part of my body and heal that, then to tolerate the same pain every day for this last year, and then to find out about his new girlfriend brought on a lot more. Step by step day by day looking for that new ray of light ! Queen of Hearts 10
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