dispatch3d Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Maybe that whole need-to-chase thing is based on ego as well. The girls don't want any doubt that you are interested before they say yes or no. Just a guess tho.
Ruby Slippers Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Don't think i'll ever understand the female mind... She just doesn't like you that much. You said she has a lot of options -- and right now, you are not the most desirable one. Ask out a girl with fewer options, and she will be less likely to flake.
camper15935 Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 like clock work, they will very soon be blowing up my phone. but my experiance is they do wind up flaking again eventually so it's best not to do this with someone you have feelings for. Dead on it's like clockwork.
thatone Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I'd conject that prehaps the reason some of you suggested you search for future problems by looking for differences in opinions on things, religion, etc. might be a little self-defeating. Maybe you are just trying to find a reason to reject the other person so that you don't have to deal with you liking them, and them not liking you back? there are going to be deal breakers that aren't necessarily wrong. religion being a good example. my personal rule on religion, being an atheist, is i will date catholics but not protestants/evangelicals. so i'm not interested in a good baptist even though she may really be 'good'. same goes for hobbies/interests. if she goes river rafting every weekend, well, i'm not interested in that either, i'm a city person, i spend my weekends downtown. there's nothing wrong with those things, just differences that won't be overcome. so i see nothing wrong with finding that stuff out beforehand.
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