My girlfriend thinks about being the guy whilst watching porn?

[Awkward84]

Hello,

 

I came across my girlfriends history on her Iphone as i was looking for a site she mentioned about. I then came across alot of porn that shes looked at, all of the porn was one girl with 2 , 3 , 4 even 5 guys at once. It was really dirty , rough porn.

 

So i questioned it as it made me wonder if she wanted to have more than one guy at once, which is something im not into. She assured me it was just what she liked watching , i was ok with that. I then asked her what part of it gets her off, this is where it made me feel abit weird. She explained she gets off at the thought of what it feel like for the guy, doing the girl really hard and rough with other guys and what it feels like to cum as a guy.

 

Its made me feel really uneasy that shes thinking about being the guy, am i being weird here? i tired to explain so put it like this to her. If i watched one guy and 4 girls and got off on the thought of being the girl and what it feels like to have a cock going inside of me , she did agree it was abit odd but said that what she gets off on, what it would feel like to be the guy and have rough sex with a girl and lots of guys sharing a girl.

 

Please help me understand as it has made me feel abit odd about it all, she has reassured me that its only me she wants and she just gets off the way she does on what she watches, be nice to get some other opinion on the thought.

 

thanks for reading and hope you can shed some light on this.

[shayla]

I think that most women wonder how the other half lives, just curiosity. I have wondered about it because of the difference in sexual energy from a man versus a woman. It's fantasy, I don't think that your girlfriend wants to really explore this live.

 

Now, in saying all that, I am not a man so men may see this in an entirely different way lol.

[denise_xo]

I find her reaction very logical. In many porn clips, it's the man who exercises agency. The woman is a passive receiver who is 'being done', 'being nailed', 'screwed', and so on. The man is the doer, the person with the verb in the present tense. I prefer to be a doer rather than a passive receiver, so I will often identify with a doer as well, regardless of the gender.

[Cee]

It sounds natural to me. I have wondered what it would be like to be a man. And porn is usually male focused, so it's nearly impossible not to notice the male point of view. Or "try it on" within one's own mind.

 

I think you should be reassured that your girlfriend has the capacity to use her creative imagination.

[Awkward84]

So if anything i should be thankful shes open minded? and not see it as her getting off at being a man sharing a girl with many others. Im glad this is normal as i was abit worried

[Awkward84]

why do you keep spamming this?

[ronald2011]

I think she's bi- curious. Everyone feels it I guess. The curiosity. I keep asking my friend what it feels like for their thing to be inside our thing. Just plain curiosity. Your girlfriend needs a little spice I guess.

[Zaphod B]

I'm thinking what Ronald is thinking - she's bi-curious.