Timbo22 Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 My ex and I have been broken up for 7 months. She has strung me along countless times and I have took the hook line and sinker each time. Well this time she tried adding me back on Facebook, I didnt accept and the next day she sent me this message: hey if it wouldn't be too much to ask i would like to see you again to talk to you about something. I dont know what to think of it considering we left on not so good terms and I told her to leave be alone and stop calling me when your sad and insecure. She has been with this guy all summer Idk whats going on with them. Thoughts? and advice on how I should handle this?
sochic Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 She and the summer romance are no longer.....the grass is not greener.... you can entertain her, but know that if you still love her then you'll be sucked back in. If you're over her, then feel free to listen without emotion and keep it moving.
EgoJoe Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Tell her off. If she takes it and apologizes she's genuinely sorry. If not, back to 100% NC (don't even read her sheiza breadcrumbs).
Nsweet Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 After you two broke up she quickly entered a rebound relationship to help herself ease the pain of losing you. In all circumstances this guy probably closely mached your personality, but with nothing more than attraction the relationship couldn't hold together. During that time she didn't want lose you for good so she strung you along with little messages or short phone calls. Just so she could keep you in her back pocket and take you out whenever she needed you. Now that her rebound relationship is over she has turned to you, but she won't allow herself to completely forgive you just yet. When you denied her face oil request she tried to rationalize things on her terms and left you with that cryptic message as an excuse to meet up so she can see you and most likely hint at how she missed you, but there is going to be some complaining too. At this point you could either continue NC until she calms down OR meet up like she wants. It would be wise to continue NC if you're still torn up inside until you can handle seeing her again. If you choose that route NC means absolutely NC for a period you decide is best atleast a month or two. Now if you think you can handle the meeting be prepared for her to try to upset you or make you jealous in some way. This isn't to piss you off or get back at you more than it is just for her to regain control. If you can accept her jealousy ploy or b****ing and be able to handle or even segway the convorsation to not talk about the relationship or anything too heavy then by all means talk to her.
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