I love someone who doesnt feel the same way, i need some advice.. help me out! :)

[JimmyF04]

Ok, i met this girl last summer, and we got pretty close i guess, i mean, we were good friends. We worked together, and hung out atleast a few nights a week, we had good times together. Then school started and since we go to different schools, we really didnt see each other as much as before, and that is when i realized how much i really liked her. I could'nt get her off my mind. Then recently i couldnt hold it in, and i told her how i felt, and she basically said that she doesnt see us as any more than friends, and turned me down. Thing is, i really have strong feelings for her, and she is constantly on my mind, and i don't know what to do. Should i just give up on her, and move on?, or should i follow my heart and keep on trying with her. I dont know what to do, any advice would be helpful, Thanks!

[moimeme]

You gotta think that Fate is some practical joker; so often it happens that one person will fall for someone who doesn't fall back.

 

Don't expect the situation to change. Your decisons must be made based on the assumption that the situation on the other person's part will never change.

 

Now, you have two choices. You can leave that person behind forever and find someone who will be in a relationship with you or you can spend as much time with the person you love while that person is uncommitted. You can be friends even if you both get into relationships, even. But you have to know yourself and your own strength. Some people are lifelong friends of people they love because they never find anyone better. The mother of one of my oldest friends is still friends with a man who proposed to her years ago. He never married.

[southerngirl84]

I've been in that same situation before, if its meant to be it will happen. Give it some time