Author Jam3s Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Well that is why it was ended, because she openly admitted that relationships will have arguments like these and she needs the ability to deal with them without feeling like she does now. As for the original argument, it was solved (and in my favour mind you) however obviously the raising voice issue became a bigger problem.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Jams3, I've agreed with EVERYTHING D-Lish has said in regards to this girl. She is manipulative and selfish. I know she said some hurtful things to you but this has to do with her issues, not yours. You're going to make another girl a wonderful boyfriend because of your thoughtfulness, consideration and maturity.
Author Jam3s Posted September 11, 2011 Author Posted September 11, 2011 Thanks DY, appreciate it. I'm coping with it better than I expected and perhaps that is because I know it was the right decision and I can move on from it holding my head up high for how I handled the situation. Certainly do hope I find that someone someday!
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 You will. One time I dated a man that when we had disagreements, he'd just closed up and I could see him just shut down on me. I wanted him to get mad or angry or whatever, just so he would express something about what he was honestly thinking and feeling and we could both work out our feelings even if we didn't agree. But he couldn't ever do that and I never felt like anything in our relationship was resolved or even honest. I need a man that is going to tell me how he feels. Even if he's angry or mad at the time he is doing it. Expressing anger in a healthy manner within a relationship is normal. It's going to happen. So don't let this experience close you off to that or be fearful of how you're being preceived by potential mates.
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