georgejungle Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 ..We're 3000 miles away from each other but I know where she works. I'm Married with a Child. Right after our child was born, My Ex contacted me to sort of reconcile and say she was sorry and dumb and naive for breaking my heart 12 years ago when we were in college. She was my first true love if you believe in that stuff. Anyway, I was nice when she reached out to me at that time (via email mind you) but I didn't keep in touch and felt it best to just not keep in contact (knowing how I felt about her and well, my Wife just had out 1st child, come on!) Anyway, she's been on my mind lately and I've thought about emailing her just to say hello and see what she's up to. We tried to stay friends (she wanted to) after we separated 12 years ago for a few months but I just couldn't do it, it was hard for me...so I left town and moved away. I really don't know what I'd get out of contacting her...
jnj express Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Why---give me the real why???---you feel a need to start up with an old GF------and please don't tell me its to find out how she is doing----you haven't cared for how she is doing for all these years---so ---why---now----I E, what else is eating you---cuz if things were really good in your mge---you wouldn't be thinking of contacing ANY other woman, about anything
analystfromhell Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 My prediction about what you'd get out of contacting her? A whole lot of headaches...
confusedinkansas Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 If she was a girlfriend during college & you weren't married at the time...... How is it any different than contacting an old classmate via Facebook? Or...getting numbers from people you were friends with & dated during a reunion? .............just to see how they're doing? .............what's new with you? Etc. Maybe she's happily married now & just wondering how you are? Can't it be THAT simple? Just curious.
confusedinkansas Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Sorry - didn't realize there were other threads where the OP said that he on purpose moved 1000's of miles away from this other woman so that he could forget her. Oops....my bad. It doesn't say that here.
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