theconz Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 Buddy and I walked into a local club. (no not a Priest and a Rabbi joke)Made it to the bar where a couple of ladies were sitting and they moved to let me get to the bar to order. So we started chatting. Turns out one was kinda broken up about a guy who just dumped her to the point where she actually she some tears for a minute.She was really nice and I truly felt bad for her. Besides that, she was a pistol. Funny, cute, and owns her own bike shop. Obviously a bright, independent gal. My kind of woman. Also I scraped my hand on something on the bar and she noticed and took a napkin and wrapped my finger with it and held it on there for a bit to stop the bleeding. Just a really nice girl. The four of us only chatted for about 20 minutes she had a bike tour to lead the next morning. Said our goodbyes nice meeting you and she starts rummaging through her purse. Out comes her card, hands it to me. Says something about she'll give me a free bike rental. Has her mobile # and e-mail on it. Now I wasn't gonna ask her for contact info cause of her situation. Just not right in my book being on the rebound. Also she had a few drinks, or more, drinks. Okay, this was Saturday night and truth is I am going to call her tonight to thank her for stemming the bleeding and saving my life. I used to be a wuss but gave it up for lent a few years ago. Not looking for a quickie either been there done that. Would love to meet a steady gal. Interested in some of the ladies feedback of course I know the dudes are gonna chime in regardless. Just go easy on the "bike rental" jokes!
Tayla Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 My first re-action is what a charming sense of humor you have! I think it can be a joy to this lady in cheering her up. I would say to keep your intentions on a social level of "getting" to know her and her interest. You would be a breath of fresh air. If she declines, simply respect that she is going thru her own baggage at this time and isn't ready to step out yet. Best to you in your pursuit.
Author theconz Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 Thanks! Got her VM. Thanked her for saving me from bleeding to death, told her I would like to hear her story, and said I hope she returned my call. (left my number) Hey, it could have been a drunk thing and/or really wanted to rent me a bike! Although a female friend said that a woman would never volunteer her card in that setting unless she thought you were somewhat attractive. But who knows. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Regrets, I have a few, but then again, too few to mention.....sorry my inner Frank just popped out!
Tayla Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 Glad you left a brief message, Lets hope for the best that she does return the call. If for nothing else, you have gained the ability to step up to the plate and put your best foot forward. Stay real, stay humorous and I think that in itself will aide you as you venture thru the dating scene. Best to you.
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