sad&stresd Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 hi im 20 & i have a boyfriend who is 23 we've been in a relation for the past 8 months my mom has known about it for the past 4 months i met my bf on the net...while chatting then we started to talk on the phone then in may he came to visit me & he came again yesterday we went around...watched a movie........ i live in the hostel but i still need to give a reason at home to go out since my dad doesn't know about him i had to say at home that i was going to my friend's to study anyways my mom knew that i'd been out with him last time & she realised that i was again going out with him yesterday but then she blew up about it she says how could i go out with a guy i don't know whom i've met on the net she says its fyine if we keep the long distance relationship but she's become paranoid about the fact that we share pictures and that i go out with him alone i've tried to convince her that he is not bad & even my bf understands mom's problem but my mom has threatened that she will break open her own head if i go out alone with my bf again she says that i don't know him enough so how can i trust him i know that maybe in her way she is right because she doesn't know him how do i convince her that he is not bad??? & i trust him because i'm in love with him with his nature.....his voice,etc. but am i trusting too blindly?? can anyone give me some advice on what to do?
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