Thehusband2 Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 For the ladies...just wondering what you think and if this is just normal girl talk W is about to get a new job. She was texting her friend about how the interview went and what she will be doing in her new job... She mentioned in that text that she will be working on her own... and "that this way she cannot meet the good looking, millionaire executive haha!" I should say that she has not met the executive and does not know anything about them.... Is this just girl talk or should this bug me! I hardly think she's serious but it bugs me for some reason but I have no past histaory at all that would / should make me feel this way!!
TigerCub Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 I would say that its normal girly joking around. I was going to ask you if there was previous dishonesty/cheating from your wife, but you actually mentioned that there is no history issues that cause you to assume the worst. So can you think of any reason why its bugging you?
Author Thehusband2 Posted August 22, 2011 Author Posted August 22, 2011 No not really...we've been having issues with our relationship, but not to this extent I feel. Also, I feel I know her really well and being unfaithful is something I don't think she's ever do to me/us...but I bet everyone says that don't they??!!
TigerCub Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 No not really...we've been having issues with our relationship, but not to this extent I feel. Also, I feel I know her really well and being unfaithful is something I don't think she's ever do to me/us...but I bet everyone says that don't they??!! I dunno, like how big are these issues. I'm just trying to think of what I would think if I saw an email by my boyfriend saying something to the extent of "oh, well I work alone most of the time, its probably best they didn't give me a hottie secretary - hahaha" I honestly wouldn't think that much of it if we were good and stable. Actually I probably would have made a joke before him that said something like "what? new job not gonna get you a cute secretary?" but that's me, and jokes like that don't bug me - as long as there is no reason to doubt my boyfriend and as long as we are pretty stable. So I guess it comes down to what problems you two are having and how serious are they? Also, this is just a guess/questions - are any of the problems making you feel like you don't make enough money or provide as much as she'd like you to?
confusedinkansas Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 It's Just Girl Talk!! Have you always been this paranoid of a husband? Weird though - Why did you put this in the INFIDELITY section?
SoulStorm Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 It's Just Girl Talk!! Have you always been this paranoid of a husband? Weird though - Why did you put this in the INFIDELITY section? No need to do passive aggressive insulting. This man is just asking a question. It would be no different than your husband saying he would be working alone and can't meet the hot new secretaries.
Lucky_One Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I vote "normal girl talk". And actually, my H DID tease about not getting a hot secretary!!
SoulStorm Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I vote "normal girl talk". And actually, my H DID tease about not getting a hot secretary!! Did you give him a playful smack for saying that?
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