Strange Experience of being stalking online by an old flame*s SO

[janeinla]

Sorry about the long post!

 

I am a middle age divorced woman, currently single. Due to financial difficulty, I wasn’t able to get professional help but in need to resolve my relationship issue which has being bothering me for many years. I have been to several relationship message boards seeking for free conciliation and advice. My posts are always anonymous, nothing specific ever been mentioned.

 

However, maybe it was my research meth(relied on google only too often). Whenever I swatch to a new message board telling my story, there were always some other member jumping out and claiming that he was the person I mentioned. Some legal threatens usually followed. Not sure if the person was really related to the story I told, I did doubt if it is the same old person doing online stalking.

 

After being harassed, I usually stop posting then switch to other relationship message boards. I do not want to have conflict with someone I know nothing about. However, I feel my rights has been violated by this person one message boards after another. I started checking out his posts and found that he did know something about me. Some small details like my current job, some particular things ever happened during certain event.

 

Now, I am seriously thinking that it was an old flame*s SO doing! The contents of posts showing too much famine and feminist side of him is one thing. This poster even mentioned HE has been reading ALL Dr. Laura books! Common, guys! Unless you are a retiree with too much time in hand, would you ever care for a marital relationship advice from a woman? Dr. Laura? And read ALL HER BOOKS about how to take care of HUSBAND? I remember that I went to a bookstore with this SO of his one time, she sat down and read a book *The Proper Care and Feeding of Husband*.(now yall should think that it was not just my paranoid)

 

After years of experience of being insulting, slamming, following by legal threatens, I still wont quit posting online not because I haven't gotten over it but out of despite! At first, I was wishing he(she) would just leave me alone! Now, I feel that NO one have right to silent me and violate my rights just because they are richer or have more power over me!

 

My apology to other members! I am tired of being bullied by this person and wont tolerate it any longer, hence, I vent!

 

Do you have similar experience and how do you handle it! Please enlighten me on this one! Thank you!