Depressed Lad Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 So here is my original thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=16778924 And now it turns out that she has gone back to the kid she was seeing before me... It has really knocked me sideways today, finding this out... It seems that we really are over, I am struggling to accept this and seem to be in a constant blur of waking up, thinkin about her all day, feeling lonely, sad and miserable... She on the other hand seems to have moved on straight away.. well, moved back...
smudge21 Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 It's a double wammy that - losing a loved one and then seeing them go back to an ex. Mine did the same. I really can't tell you how to deal with it as I'm still asking myself questions that don't come with answers. I guess the only thing to do is not focus on it - it's over and now you have to heal. Okay, she's back with her ex, but who's to say how that will work out, if at all. The more you think about it, the more hurt you'll become, and that will damage any attempt at healing.
wilsonx Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 So here is my original thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/search.php?searchid=16778924 And now it turns out that she has gone back to the kid she was seeing before me... It has really knocked me sideways today, finding this out... It seems that we really are over, I am struggling to accept this and seem to be in a constant blur of waking up, thinkin about her all day, feeling lonely, sad and miserable... She on the other hand seems to have moved on straight away.. well, moved back... I have a question, did she leave her ex for you?? This is a lesson you should learn. You need to date single people from now on. And when I say single, I mean they havent been a relationship for over 6 months. As far as her relationship with her ex goes, it work work out. History repeats itself at the same time it wont work out if she went back to you. I was the ex that my ex went back to. Don't sweat it. Stick NC and move forward with your life
ConfusedT Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 so agree with dear wilson. i got with my ex even though he said he was OVER his (*ex friend*-they were never together). little did i do, he was never over her, because he was cheating on me with her OUR entire relationship &... left me for her & now they are together. are you better off? YES will it still hurt like hell? YES I am in your boat, so I know exactly how it feels! just be strong and let time take its course!
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