AmericanHoney Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 I am seeing this guy from my work and I haven't seen him in ages since we work so far away and he never really gave me answer just I can't come over for lunch or dinner today and finally fed up I said why won't you visit me anymore?? He said it's to expensive to visit you. I work 40-50 minutes away and it never used to bother him but now it suddenly does. I know gas prices are expensive but I cannot figure out if he is lying. He said I should be getting a raise in a month so hopefully I can come over to visit you and the rest of old gang soon. I hate waiting but I still have doubts since he used to visit me on his off days at my work for lunch and he visited me when I got off but now suddenly it's too expensive.
SoleMate Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 My math tells me that visiting you requires about $10 worth of gas. For most people, that would not require reducing visits to the SO to once per month or less. (For those on extremely low incomes, of course it could.) So, how much discretionary income does he have? Does he eat out, visit Starbucks, rent movies instead of visiting you? Then, those are his priorities...not you.
DoS Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 I am seeing this guy from my work and I haven't seen him in ages since we work so far away and he never really gave me answer just I can't come over for lunch or dinner today and finally fed up I said why won't you visit me anymore?? He said it's to expensive to visit you. I work 40-50 minutes away and it never used to bother him but now it suddenly does. I know gas prices are expensive but I cannot figure out if he is lying. He said I should be getting a raise in a month so hopefully I can come over to visit you and the rest of old gang soon. I hate waiting but I still have doubts since he used to visit me on his off days at my work for lunch and he visited me when I got off but now suddenly it's too expensive. I make about $600/week and it cost me $50 in gas (alone, no food) to visit my girlfriend, but I still do it every 2 weeks and would do it more if it wasn't such a long drive for a short visit. I couldn't care any less about the money. Something is wrong here. Even if he drives a hummer like a jackass he'd spend ~$20-25 on gas.
Professor X Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 I am seeing this guy from my work and I haven't seen him in ages since we work so far away and he never really gave me answer just I can't come over for lunch or dinner today and finally fed up I said why won't you visit me anymore?? He said it's to expensive to visit you. I work 40-50 minutes away and it never used to bother him but now it suddenly does. I know gas prices are expensive but I cannot figure out if he is lying. He said I should be getting a raise in a month so hopefully I can come over to visit you and the rest of old gang soon. I hate waiting but I still have doubts since he used to visit me on his off days at my work for lunch and he visited me when I got off but now suddenly it's too expensive. He's lying. 40-50 minutes lol, that's nothing!, I do that everyday for much more retarded reasons than seeing a girl I like - or suppose to anyway. I used to drive to university everyday, and that's 1h drive 1 way, my ex' lives near the university and I still went and saw her every weekend. Oh and, the gas prices here are more expensive than in the US
mo mo Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 This is all man code for "you don't put out enough"
Author AmericanHoney Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 He does spend it on Cigerettes, Booze. I will say he does have a spending problem. He smokes about a pack a day and drinks like a fish but again it didn't bother him in the past I mean the driving part. He probably has other women to attend to
sassybetch Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 why are you trying to make an effort with a guy that clearly just doesn't care? if he wanted to see you, he would. regardless of money, its a dumb excuse. basically, move on and date more guys that will make an effort
FitChick Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 There are thousands of people all over the world in long distance relationships who can afford it by saving money, working extra jobs, doing whatever it takes to be with their beloved.
Author AmericanHoney Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 He is an idiot. Not only is he hurting me or pretending like it's so,so expensive he is also hurting my work friends too because they'd like to see him as well. Oh,well his loss I guess.
Professor X Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 He is an idiot. Not only is he hurting me or pretending like it's so,so expensive he is also hurting my work friends too because they'd like to see him as well. Oh,well his loss I guess. So what are you gonna do about it? Say it's his loss and still be in pain because you're with him? - Because that's your loss really.
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