lillypolo Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 my now ex, said he wanted to break up when I brought up the subject of how the relationship was going. We are very comfortable and happy, make one another laugh, but he said he doesnt feel that strong LOVE and attraction towards me, we barely had sex at all in the past few months too... anyway, i sort of accepted it and then 2-3 he told me he'd met someone else when we were in a relationship (a month ago on a summer course) who he'd "fallen for instantly" because there was that attraction from the start, that they'd been on contact the night after we broke up. Nothing sexual happened apprently but the acted like a couple for the week they were together... she really likes him, he really likes her BUT they live in different countries- about 3000 miles away... I feel like i wasn't worth anything, He'/d rather try and have a LDR with someone he just met than try and work things out with someone who will be close to him and was with him for a year... I dont know what to think... he's staying at my house so theres no escape I have to see him every day for these 2 weeks... Any one? x I just dont know what to think/ do he wants to carry on being best friends....
wilsonx Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 its called emotional cheating and its just as bad if not worse then physical cheating in my opinion. These are attraction alterations within a relationship where the other person's attraction becomes higher then yours and the relationship at that point ends. There's absolutely nothing you can ever do to stop it too except end the relationship and walk away. If he's staying at your house then firmly plant your foot in his @ss and tell him to leave. Staying friends with him is completely toxic for you and he has to go ASAP
123BeachFan Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 Eh, I don't buy the "falling for her instantly" excuse he's giving you. It sounds like he was struck by a falling rock instead of being accountable for his bad behavior. Fine, he's found the love of his life/love of the moment. Let him pine for her in the comfort of someone else's house. Kick that boy out, you have no obligation to play hostess to his mooching butt!
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