trueluV Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 This is about a guy I met a few months ago, who i traveled with. (see my earlier post, for details) we're both in 30's, asian, very shy. okay, so i'm "still" confused if he likes me or is just being friendly to me as in friends. I posted a thread earlier that i went on 10 dates with this guy. i don't know if it was a real date, but it was always only two of us, and he paid 90% of the time, but, there was absolutely no physical contact -not even a hug. so that's why i don't know what i can make out of this. this time, i'm even more confused, because he called and asked to meet for dinner a few weeks ago and went to a fancy restaurant and he paid again. but-still nothing physical. however we decided to go out again this week. i know i should grow guts and initiate something - like hug him -but somehow i am waiting for this guy to initiate. so, from all this, do you think he thinks of me as a good friend who he met while traveling or something more? i know i'm terrible at reading guys... thanks in advance!
patagonia Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 This is about a guy I met a few months ago, who i traveled with. (see my earlier post, for details) we're both in 30's, asian, very shy. okay, so i'm "still" confused if he likes me or is just being friendly to me as in friends. I posted a thread earlier that i went on 10 dates with this guy. i don't know if it was a real date, but it was always only two of us, and he paid 90% of the time, but, there was absolutely no physical contact -not even a hug. so that's why i don't know what i can make out of this. this time, i'm even more confused, because he called and asked to meet for dinner a few weeks ago and went to a fancy restaurant and he paid again. but-still nothing physical. however we decided to go out again this week. i know i should grow guts and initiate something - like hug him -but somehow i am waiting for this guy to initiate. so, from all this, do you think he thinks of me as a good friend who he met while traveling or something more? i know i'm terrible at reading guys... thanks in advance! Sounds to me like YOU need to give him a hug at the end of the next date. Goodness!
sugarmomma Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 You can always just ask him what his level of interest in you is "are we just friends ?" or do you see us in a romantic way?" or something along those lines. I would be direct and ask him so that you can take all the guess work out of it.
Author trueluV Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 what are the ways out there to figure out this guy's level of interest in me? i know i can ask...but other than that, there must be some other ways. help me out please!
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